PhosphorusDecree wrote:
My main problem with this is that the general population has now just about got a handle on what "Aspergers" means, just in time for the concept to be abolished.
I still find it saves a LOT of time to say "I have Asperger's syndrome" (despite my never actually getting that diagnosis) rather than to say "I'm autistic. No, I'm not making that up, yes, I can talk, no, we're not all strapped to our beds in an institution, do you think it's still 1960 or something?" When dealing with most neurotypicals, if you can speak, then whatever your diagnosis is you're probably better off saying "Aspergers". Saves you having to do a long, tedious explanation which they will neither understand nor believe.
Yes, some of us high-functioning Aspies don't feel that autistic, even though Asperger's is a form of autism but some of us still prefer it to have its own term.
Generally people diagnosed with Asperger's had no speech delays as a toddler, were articulate as a child, and some of their social skills can even develop naturally sometimes later than average but sometimes even at the same pace as their NT peers. Some children with Asperger's are sociable and articulate and can just be socially awkward rather than socially clueless.
When I was a kid I had a friend with a severely autistic sister, and she was a perfect example of what you'd call severe. She was non-verbal, had frequent meltdowns, would rock for hours, always had to have noise-cancelling headphones on, never made eye contact, and was most happy in her sensory room. She had such severe sensory issues that she hardly wore any clothes, just diapers, and spent all day every day stimming and repetitive behaviours like spending hours throwing the same ball over and over. She had to be homeschooled because she couldn't cope with being anywhere near other children. She was just locked in her own world, but she was intelligent. She'd stack things very neatly in her sensory room, in size or colour order, and she even made very good models of things out of playdough or clay. But she had no idea, at all, of how to communicate.
I'd like to know what she's like now as an adult but I lost touch with my friend years ago and I can't find her or her family on Facebook. But last I heard the autistic sister had to go into a care home because she got too aggressive. The slightest of change used to send her into a meltdown.
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