10 Aug 2021, 10:37 am
SandWitch wrote:
Mouka wrote:
You see often in people who call themselves non-binary, when asked why they don't just call themselves male or female, it's because they "don't feel they fit into either role" It has nothing to do with biological parts, no body dysmorphia or anything like that, just the subconscious idea that pink=girl and blue=boy that deciding to enjoy things regardless of gender really screws with that idea and leads them to create these new labels in an effort to both understand themselves while still holding onto those ingrained ideas.
I guess I'm not in the "so often" crowd of what it means to be nonbinary.
Yes, there are many trans and nonbinary people who don't believe one needs gender dysphoria to be trans or nonbinary for that matter.. I'll refrain from my objective opinions on that; as I'm trans-nonbinary.
I suffer immensively with body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria, am currently and actively pursuing social and medical transitional treatments to reduce the urges of ending my life. I flucuate on a gender spectrum of "in between" or a little bit of both genders..
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smudge wrote:
I like pizza. That's a gender.
Oklahomans as well as Texans.
Smudge... Pizza is not a gender nor are Texans or Oklahomans because I wouldn't consider ingesting one's gender (as much as I love pizza) or be able to fit the size of all Oklahomans and Texans into my stomach for my cannibalistic colarie intake needs.. (a little sarcasm for the pompously self-righteous ignorance shown on this thread)
Back to the topic at hand..
Personally, I believe neogendered pronouns and identities are a little absurd to me and go more into the realm of mental illness / attention seeking behaviors / narcissistic charactistics and aligns with huge egos or extreme confusion. (Not being hateful, just my opinion; if I'm wrong on this topic; stone me, accordingly.)
Being trans-nonbinary, it's disheartening knowing that some don't take nonbinary people that do indeed transition into consideration, yet here I am doing just that, as we do exist... so it's unfortunate that people like me are under represented in the discourse of nonbinary/trans identity discussion.
Back to answering OP's question; I find that anything outside of she/he/they prounouns (unless influenced by cultures outside of modern western civilization gender norms prior to colonization and following the erasure of multiple genders in cultures of indigenous people's around the world; e.g. "two spirit" etc..) is a little extreme and going into a different areas not related to trans/nonbinary issues (trans-racial/species etc.., for instance.. somethings I feel are very damaging to actual trans and/or nonbinary people..)
Our lives as trans folk are already hard enough as it is.. some clowns needs taming, some troll-clout chasing opportunist's (oli london for example
) need humbling and some mentally-ill people simply need treatment. Auitigender being another neopronoun/gender identity outside of the mostly accepted 3 gendered normed ideals; it's a difficult discussion to be had, as I won't argue with another on the spectrum on how they identify, because being autistic can be challenging enough as it is and if it makes them happy then good on them.
With that said, unlike some on this forum thread, I don't need to understand something to know that being a decisive as*hole about it/towards someone who uses neoprouns is an ethically depleted nuance.
Just be nice to people and let people live their lives (By the way, to be clear; no one is "indoctrinating" anyone else by simply existing and being comfortable and confident enough to be publicly open about their lived experiences), no matter their gender identity/race/sexuality/religion or political affiliations etc.. unless they're unbearable, confrontational, obviously attention seeking c*nt bags who don't know how to coexist with those that disagree or live outside their own bubbles of blissful ignorance.. then give em a proper knot to the face for making us all look bad as humans in general.
You so funny. What is a "c*ntbag" anyway?
I just have a dislike of the crowd who throw the terms "TERF" and "Dead-naming" around. The way those few do it shut down arguments by calling people a few made up "anti" terms to anyone who dares disagree with them. Or perhaps it isn't so few. I am non-binary, I dislike even calling myself that because I'm so pissed off by those who insist the world revolves around them.
Want to relate autism to that multi-gender movement? Fine. Then I'm not autistic and want nothing to do with that label. I'll undiagnose myself.
"Give 'em a proper knot to the face"? You're advocating that somebody punch me? That explains your agenda right there. You don't like it when anybody disagrees with you and you advocate violence. See why I want nothing to do with the gender movement? It's extremist.
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feel like i want to make an opinionon this : But i also think that everyone has pretty much covered everything that might be said on this topic and Autistic persons .? 
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10 Aug 2021, 3:39 pm
Autism is not a gender. Why do we need so many genders? I like eating pizza, maybe I should be pizzagender! But I also like pasta, am I pastagender? I'm left-handed too. Maybe I'm lefthandedgender!~ 
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10 Aug 2021, 3:56 pm
lostonearth35 wrote:
Autism is not a gender. Why do we need so many genders? I like eating pizza, maybe I should be pizzagender! But I also like pasta, am I pastagender? I'm left-handed too. Maybe I'm lefthandedgender!~
Exactly! I like pepperoni and Hawaiian pizza with extra cheese so #pepperoniandHawaiianpizzawithextracheesegender . It's just a part of me I've come to accept after all these years.
I like the word, "supercalifragilisticexpialidocious" ...so it requires solid reasoning that everybody should call me supercalifragilisticexpialidociousgender.
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lostonearth35 wrote:
Autism is not a gender. Why do we need so many genders? I like eating pizza, maybe I should be pizzagender! But I also like pasta, am I pastagender? I'm left-handed too. Maybe I'm lefthandedgender!~
No, that just makes you sinister. You have to do it the RIGHT way after all.
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