malco wrote:
...Why should I "want" to fix someone else's problem?
OMG -- My NT husband says that All. The. Time. "Do you want to...?" I have constantly coached him about it. I need a translator for us. Hey, maybe Google could devise a NT-ASD translator.
Do you want to...? = I want you to... Would you, please?
How are you? = Say "fine" and ask me how I am.