asplanet wrote:
I am also happy to say YES,have a great relationship, much better since being diagnosed and understanding myself.
Great recent article on Love and Asperger's syndrome, may help a little..
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/main. ... ergers.xml
That article confuses me even more.
The first paragraph reads as if they have an amazing bond but the next bit reads as if they do need plenty of time apart.
"In a few days, though, Keith will drive back to Wickham, Hampshire, 50 miles away, where he lives alone and works as a computer programmer. This will always be the case. Despite meeting five years ago, they won't 'progress' as other couples do. They'll neither live together nor have children. "
I want to spend lots and lots of time with my loved one, to live together and to not want to be apart for very long.
Not to say that you can't have a great bond when you need to be apart alot but that's not what I'd want from a relationship.
Do other aspies not feel this way then?