I've definitely wished I had some "aspie" friends to hang out with, and probably do but don't know with any certainty yet, but I'm so isolated I don't see folks much except on formal group occasions, picnics, parties, memorial gatherings, and there's always a very mixed crowd. I suspect one thing though, when it comes to relating, we're already "survival-conditioned" by the N/T-centric world we've grown up in, and we definitely have acquired "habits" from that experience that we carry around which would influence our relations with our "own kind" .
I suspect that, if a bunch of us were to enter an experimental society for a significant time, with the N/T - "aspie" ratio reversed, that we would likely evolve into a more easy feeling of relating with each other, but with it's own "flavor". We would probably evolve into an N/T-like society in many basic ways.
Not that I'd want to do anything like that in reality; the grass seldom turns out to really be greener on the other side of the fence!
I know of a couple friends, living across the world from myself, who might be "aspie", and I visited with them not too long ago; just like me, they show conditioning from life experience that I suspect makes us a bit more withdrawn, a bit more touchy perhaps, than we necessarily would be without the N/T-centric domination.
Obviously, just having the particular "group characteristics" we have doesn't negate the fact that we have individual personalities like anyone else.
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