-JR wrote:
Useless? Very rarely. I actually am quite helpful. I think this is because I feel like a putz half the time I'm around anyone, and me being the watchful guy I am, I know when help is appreciated, even if it's not the "right" kind of help. I think this is a learned thing though, as is most things, of course. Reason I say this though, is because everybody will be doing something, and I'll be sort of out of it, and then I'll come around, and then I'll be the industrious guy I am. Just a half sec behind everyone else is all.
Common sense? Ehh.... Don't get me started. "Lacking" only begins to describe...
If I'm interpretting your post right JR your behavior there seems like me. I will be in my room playing my game watching tv etc. and the family is cleaning house. I come out a couple hours later ready to get going on the day perhaps cleaning etc and everyone else is watching tv and relaxing LOL! It's like oh well.
I tend to play games when people are busy etc. and am at times don't want to play them and want to clean etc.