Chickenbird wrote:
It gives them something to do while they make eye contact and
get seen by each other. The talk isn't the important part, which
is why accurate answers aren't necessary
Wow, 47 years of work went into that one.......
It seems like the content of the talk
is important. I could sit there, nod and say "I know what you mean," to all small talk muttered in my direction if that were all that is required. People want more than that. Where I live, they require
banter and if banter isn't there they feel ill at ease and don't want to hold a conversation. They will nod politely and then move away and talk to someone else. The more banter in the dialogue, the more time they spend talking with someone.
I can manage bantering online or over the phone. In person, I prefer to nod and say, "I know what you mean," to everything they say.