Master_Shake wrote:
I've had girls show interest in me and I've even been asked out a couple of times. I didn't pursue a romantic relationship because I didn't think it would work out.
Wow! Now that's what I call
true glass-half-empty pessimism!
Whew!
Who cares if it 'works out'? Do you expect every relationship to end in Marriage, White Picket Fences and 2.3 Kids? (I ask because when I was younger, I
did - thus much heartache for no purpose) Still, I wouldn't trade my experiences - even the painful ones - (well, okay
some of them).
You are the sum of everything that touches you. As tricky and frustrating as human relationships can be for everyone, but especially Aspies, they not only in no small way define us, they give us meaning in a way that nothing else in our lives ever can.
If the
least thing you come away with is a single kiss...it's something you never would have had sitting alone in your room* - and trust me, it
is worth it.
*Mirrors, pillows and stuffed animal buddies don't count.