Anachron wrote:
. I hope I am not getting off topic here, but I would love to hear more of your thoughts, if you would be willing to help me fill in the blanks.
While I try my best to figure out what is going on in relationships, I often get things wrong and have interactions with bad outcomes. I can tell you how things seem to me, but I am likely not the best person to help you fill in the gaps--I have plenty of gaps of my own.