SpaceCadet89 wrote:
To be fair, if he doesn’t even speak about it with his mother or sister, then chances are he won’t to you. He should at least let you all know a day or so beforehand, that he won’t ‘be available’ during that time. It’s a tragedy what happened, and he must grieve in his own way, but if he just ups and leaves without a word then no one can blame you all for being worried.
To be honest I would be ok with that we just worry when he disappears I would be annoyed if he came back usually not on the day but the next day drunk bit he don't he just appears to be tired like he's been walking all day and night.
We all think he's punishing himself and I'll admit I could never understand how the loss of a child can affect you but from what I know and been told it's not his fault at all even his ex does not blame him in any way.
Maybe I'm trying to white knight this but we all worry about him more so when his seizures are hitting hard