Why rush things and just live in the moment?

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It just feels that people I know or recognise from school, college or uni days who get to 30 or in their 30s now who have partners, husbands and wives with kids makes it feel to me like they are doing it because it's now or never and that's one of the reasons I'm feeling like I'm pressuring myself to do these things regardless whether I want to or not despite not even being in a relationship. There are times when I enjoy my own company but this self imposed pressure makes it less enjoyable because I feel I have to "change" if I am feeling like fitting in with my 30+ year old peers.