What can i do if my health is detiriorating?

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06 Feb 2019, 12:05 pm

I feel like my health is becoming worse every day. It is apperantly not enough that im autistic, of course not. My Eyesight is getting worse, my hearing ability too. And not only that, i do have chronical pain too. And of course, i am completely dependent on my parents. I fear that i will have to live with my parents till they die. Especially if my health is deteriorating. I try to think positive. But that is hard if your health is declining. Your psychological health, as well as your physiological health. But what should i do? Sometimes it seems like im cursed or something. Does anyone have this feeling to? That youre being punished by a higher power for being evil, maybe in a past live?



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06 Feb 2019, 12:08 pm

Fos11 wrote:
I feel like my health is becoming worse every day...But what should i do?

Stop asking for medical advice on the Internet and schedule an appointment with a doctor.



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06 Feb 2019, 12:46 pm

My parents dont allow that.



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06 Feb 2019, 6:42 pm

I'm 32 and still live with my parents due to numerous chronic health problems. Sometimes you just get dealt a shitty hand.


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06 Feb 2019, 9:06 pm

I don't think the OP is asking for medical advice. Sounds to me like he is discouraged about a number of things in his life.

OP, If you are 19 years old, why are your parents making medical decisions for you? Unless you have an intellectual disability and/or your parents are your legal guardian, you should be making your own decisions regarding medical care. Even if they are legal guardians, in the US anyway, you have the right to medical care.

Depending on where you live, there may be resources to help you live independently even if you have health problems. Many of us feel overwhelmed and beat down by life. I've certainly been. Maybe you could explain more of what is going on?


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09 Feb 2019, 7:38 am

Жила в Византии девственница, которой кто-то пожелал зла и наслал на нее проклятие. Куда бы ни шла проклятая, над ее головой кружилось несчастье. Стоило ей взять в руки свечу - свеча гасла. Стоило ей погладить щенка - он умирал. Птица, клевавшая с ее руки, падала наземь. В домах, куда она заходила, умирали дети. В городе воцарилась тьма и разорение, разорение и тьма. И вышли из той тьмы воины, и назвали они себя "Воины Тьмы". И вышли из числа людей те, кто назвал себя "Воинами Света". И началась между Светом и Тьмой великая битва. Но никто не смог победить, потому что силы были равны. И так будет всегда, пока не появится человек, которому суждено стать Великим. И если он выберет сторону Света, то Свет победит; но те, кому ведома истина, говорят, что он выберет Тьму; потому что легче погасить в себе свет, чем рассеять тьму вокруг. Пророчество сбывается.



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09 Feb 2019, 7:50 am

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09 Feb 2019, 7:56 am

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13 Feb 2019, 2:23 pm

English?