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FranzOren
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18 Apr 2022, 9:53 pm

I no longer have homicidal ideations. I decided to forgive my former bullies as they were children at that time. I am pretty sure that they matured over the years.

I feel ashamed for having those thoughts, I am sorry!



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19 Apr 2022, 2:10 am

That forgiving sounds like a smart and healthy thing to do, you are now free to go on living your life. :D


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19 Apr 2022, 2:26 am

Thank you!



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19 Apr 2022, 7:44 am

Whenever I feel emotionally attached or averse to something or someone, I remind myself "thin line between love and hate"

I didn't realize that until 29

Now 39

Chop wood and carry water

There's something wrong with everything

Not all impacts are immediate obvious physical or visible



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24 Apr 2022, 4:49 pm

Forgiving ones enemies is a great form of self care. As the saying goes: Hatred is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.


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24 Apr 2022, 4:53 pm

Thank you!