If I can ask about this anywhere, I would imagine it'd be here. Is it wrong to be sexually attracted to a female cousin if I am also a female? Whenever I'm around her, I feel more attracted to her. She identifies as "queer," which is a new term to me -- and after researching it, I've realized that's what I might have been all along, too, and was only thinking I was bisexual because I had no idea there was anything but gay, straight, and bi. Even before she came out, I remember there being a spark there, but maybe it's just that I look up to her a lot?
I feel weird asking this question because, well... I've asked my husband, "Do you think it's okay for lesbians who are cousins to date since they can't reproduce with each other?" and he said no, but maybe that's just because he and his own cousin were more like siblings growing up.
I wouldn't act on these feelings since my husband would not approve, and his opinion does matter since we are married, but I'm just curious about the ethics of it.
01 Jun 2013, 1:14 am
