Am I homosexual if fictional guys turn me on?

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The_Blonde_Alien
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15 Feb 2016, 3:42 pm

While I was searching through the theme shop in my 3DS I came across a theme that was based on the original Kid Icarus game and... Well it turned me on a little... The main character Pit that is. :?

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^ DANG! I get turned on just by looking at him! :oops:

In fact It's not the first time I've been turned on by a fictional male character before. Here are just a few characters that turned me on in the past:

1. Len Kagamine (a Vocaloid)
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2. (underwear) Shulk
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3. Dark Pit
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4. Cloud Strife
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...And so on.

In fact I think I might be sexually open to just about any guy.

But of course, I wouldn't be making this thread without a fair share of questions. Here they are:

1. How can you tell if you are gay and what can you do to know for sure?

2. Is anal intercourse really hard to do? :roll:

3. How hard/easy is it to find a same sex partner?

4. How do you deal with homophobic people should you turn out gay or bisexual?

I hope you can at least answer some of these questions. :wink: :heart:


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15 Feb 2016, 3:47 pm

I'm attracted by fictional characters all the time [pretty boys and pretty girls, of course]. Being me, I don't worry too much about 'so does x make me y' or does acting like x mean I am y'. You are you, and that's all that matters to me. :heart:
I could at least tell you how to know if you are lesbian/gay, since I am definitely the former. :wink:


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15 Feb 2016, 4:15 pm

Kuraudo777 wrote:
I could at least tell you how to know if you are lesbian/gay, since I am definitely the former. :wink:


Can you tell me? :D :heart: Also, what did you mean by you being "the former"?


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15 Feb 2016, 4:20 pm

You are a transgender girl, right? That would mean you aren't gay even if you are attracted to guys. You may be pansexual, but you don't have to give your sexuality a label yet. Just be yourself.



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15 Feb 2016, 4:38 pm

Okay, I'm aware of how this might sound, but...

Yeah, I went through this one early on myself. I figured it out by, well... it's the internet, so I just went and looked at actual naked guys to see what happened. Suffice it to say I was rather pleased by the pics. And then of course things just went on from there...

And as anime/gaming characters go there's hentai-ish things for male characters too, so THAT got going...

Ugh, I'm so perverted, arent I. Bah.



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15 Feb 2016, 6:02 pm

^^^Well, for me it started when I began daydreaming about bishonen guys and bishojo girls all the time, and then realized that I was attracted to girls a lot [especially ones with braids...], but not guys. By being the former, I meant lesbian. My advice would be: just be what feels natural and comfortable to you, and don't care about what anyone else thinks or comply with other people's ideas of how you should be. :heart:


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17 Feb 2016, 9:33 am

You have to be really careful in anal sex. Make sure, if you are the "giver" of it, that you use plenty of lubrication.

The anus is not naturally made to receive foreign objects, or penises.



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17 Feb 2016, 10:21 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
You have to be really careful in anal sex. Make sure, if you are the "giver" of it, that you use plenty of lubrication.


Lubrication? Is that something that you use to make the anus moist? :oops: Also, why should I do if I turn out to be the giver? :oops: :heart: The only things that comes to my mind is that I should routinely use coffee enema. Is there anything else that I should watch out for?


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17 Feb 2016, 10:22 am

^Blek. Could you guys talk about something else? :eew: Or maybe I'll just leave. Image


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17 Feb 2016, 10:35 am

I'm sorry, Kuraudo. But this sort of thing is important. If you don't perform this sort of thing right, it can cause serious problems with the body.



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17 Feb 2016, 10:36 am

As far as lubrication, KY jelly is good, as well as Vaseline.



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17 Feb 2016, 7:05 pm

Kuraudo777 wrote:
^Blek. Could you guys talk about something else? :eew: Or maybe I'll just leave. Image


I always have this same reaction to this topic, really. Just... ugh. I dont mean to sound rude to anyone but it always makes me feel like I need brain bleach or something.

...though for me "brain bleach" just translates into "more caffiene".



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20 Feb 2016, 4:17 pm

The_Blonde_Alien wrote:
...And so on.

In fact I think I might be sexually open to just about any guy.

But of course, I wouldn't be making this thread without a fair share of questions. Here they are:

1. How can you tell if you are gay and what can you do to know for sure?

2. Is anal intercourse really hard to do? :roll:

3. How hard/easy is it to find a same sex partner?

4. How do you deal with homophobic people should you turn out gay or bisexual?

I hope you can at least answer some of these questions. :wink: :heart:


Maybe you're simply attracted to fictional male characters & that's that. There are straight guys who are turned on by gay porn and that's simply what type of porn they like, but they're not actually into doing anything sexual with another guy.

1. Only you will know if you are or aren't sexually attracted to another guy. The only way to know for SURE is to have sexual relations with another guy and see if it is in fact something you enjoy. Or to initiate them and see if it goes further if you're into it, or if you stop it because you determine you're simply not into it. You'd need an understanding partner who accepts either outcome before attempting something like this.

2. No, but it does require proper preparation & lubricant etc. But it's not difficult; people do it every day - straight people, too.

3. For a guy, probably a lot easier than a hetero sex partner, especially in a major city. There are plenty of gay guys that like to hookup for meaningless physical sex. There are literally apps for that. It's not difficult at all.

4. Depends on the person and situation. In some cases I ignore them, in others I might tell them off, in another I ended up defending myself at a human rights tribunal over the period of a year of my life.


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20 Feb 2016, 4:19 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
As far as lubrication, KY jelly is good, as well as Vaseline.


Vaseline is petroleum based and should not be used with latex condoms.


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20 Feb 2016, 4:25 pm

The_Blonde_Alien wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
You have to be really careful in anal sex. Make sure, if you are the "giver" of it, that you use plenty of lubrication.


Lubrication? Is that something that you use to make the anus moist? :oops: Also, why should I do if I turn out to be the giver? :oops: :heart: The only things that comes to my mind is that I should routinely use coffee enema. Is there anything else that I should watch out for?


No, water makes things moist. Lubricant makes things slippery. Without plenty of lubricant, anal sex can be painful & tissues can tear causing damage that takes time to heal up. Also, due to the nature of the region, fecal bacteria can infect tears/cuts and make things.. bad. It's nothing I've ever heard of actually happening to someone, but it is possible and one more reason to use plenty of lube. For the most part, though, lubricant is to make things slippery so they're enjoyable for both partners vs. painful, especially for the receiving partner.


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20 Feb 2016, 4:28 pm

Misery wrote:
Kuraudo777 wrote:
^Blek. Could you guys talk about something else? :eew: Or maybe I'll just leave. Image


I always have this same reaction to this topic, really. Just... ugh. I dont mean to sound rude to anyone but it always makes me feel like I need brain bleach or something.

...though for me "brain bleach" just translates into "more caffiene".


If neither of you can handle a forum thread discussing legitimate sex education topics, then feel free not to post in it/leave. This is the LGBT forum and thus appropriate for discussing all things related, including sex.

IMO, these sorts of topics shouldn't be taboo. Some people need to learn about these things and prefer to ask in this forum vs. google it.

Anyways, as for googling, I haven't watched these particular video clips because I don't need to.. but gay youtuber Davey Wavey has put out a couple of popular videos on "how to top" and "how to bottom." Google/youtube them for a little sex education.


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