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Actually, if you read interviews or watch old interviews when he was a kid on youtube or somewhere, you'll find he was an outgoing and spunky kid, he really didn't become reclusive and shy until 20's.
If you video-tapped me during an interview in which I was the focus of postive attention as a child, I doubt I would have appeared much different.
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He talks about how when he was a teenager he had acne problems and a big nose and his family made fun of him for it and at that point he started to withdraw, and it only got worse as he got older. That is why I don't think he has AS, because it's like his crap childhood and fame caught up with him in his 20's and he didn't know how to handle all of it so he retreated into himself.
I think these things are impossible to determine from the only kind of perspective people who did not know nor attempt to clinically assess the man in an appropriate context could possibly have.
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I think he was just a man that sadly had a difficult childhood, and he experienced abuse and large amounts of pressure to be perfect at a young age and as he got older he had no idea what to do with himself. I think he had a lot of issues with himself and was not a very happy man, but I'm just not sure about the AS.
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Nor ought you be. I doubt you are a clinician with relevant diagnostic expertise, much less that you actually clinically assessed the person concerned. I have no idea whether or not he had AS; it would not surprise me if he did, but I cannot see how either of us could possibly have any evidence based grounds for any firm opinion either way. It is not as though AS is entirely common, nor as though people characterized by it have a flashing neon sign anouncing the fact on their forehead.
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Every site I've looked at so far mentions sense of humor might be weak and that emotions and touching are something that most people with AS don't favor. I didn't mean to be offensive or anything, but these are just a couple examples of what most sites say and things that I am finding apply to me too.
Plenty of people with AS have an excellent sense of humour. I love a good laugh myself and can be quite witty at times (although it is not to everyone's taste, there are people who find my particular sense of humour very entertaining). Many people with AS have sensory anomalies (in fact it is my suspicion that all do), but these are not uniformly distributed. What is excessively pleasurable to one person with AS (in terms of sensory stimulus) can be exceedingly painful to some other person with AS and neither here nor there to yet another person with AS. Any issues with respect to touching are usually an idosyncratic symptom of irregular sensory processing.
As for emotions, being poor at coping with them, recognizing them (in self or others), regulating them, or expressing them are all not uncommon in AS. Bowling is a not uncommon hobby of humans. Would you extrapolate from that fact that if it does not bowl it is unlikely to be human, and if it is human it probably goes bowling often?
As to being offensive, so far as I can tell there is nothing offensive in your comments.