Casual sex was dying out before the pandemic

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11 Apr 2021, 10:17 am

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I bet you are more likely to get laid with a QAnon chick. Be honest, that's why you're in it.
Meh! The most I did with a QAnon woman is French-kiss her. I also danced with women at Q parties, but it was G-rated swing dancing. My getting laid comes almost exclusively from escorts, who I've been seeing during the scamdemic too. Speaking of which, the skill set I acquired from illegally meeting escorts for sex came in handy when I found and attended illegal social gatherings. Namely, knowing who to talk to and who to avoid, wording messages such that not to reveal any evidence of a "crime", taking public transit to keep my license plate from being tracked, using printed directions instead of a GPS, and not trusting the police. (Even though many cops specifically don't enforce lockdown rules, you never know who's a virtue-signaling bad apple.)



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11 Apr 2021, 10:24 am

I feel like this is a good thing with less people feeling pressured into it.

I wouldn't have judged anyone for hooking up consensually pre pandemic.

But there was a woman on youtube who kept hooking up with loads of partners & then she got Covid & played the victim... she's about my age (early 30s) with no prior medical conditions...

Casual sex shouldn't be so much of your life that you're choosing to do it during a pandemic. If it is such a thing in your life that you're getting caught like that then that's your own bloody fault for being stupid and you shouldn't whine about it on social media.


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11 Apr 2021, 10:47 am

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I bet you are more likely to get laid with a QAnon chick. Be honest, that's why you're in it.
Meh! The most I did with a QAnon woman is French-kiss her. I also danced with women at Q parties, but it was G-rated swing dancing. My getting laid comes almost exclusively from escorts, who I've been seeing during the scamdemic too. Speaking of which, the skill set I acquired from illegally meeting escorts for sex came in handy when I found and attended illegal social gatherings. Namely, knowing who to talk to and who to avoid, wording messages such that not to reveal any evidence of a "crime", taking public transit to keep my license plate from being tracked, using printed directions instead of a GPS, and not trusting the police. (Even though many cops specifically don't enforce lockdown rules, you never know who's a virtue-signaling bad apple.)


French-kissing is pretty good. I think I can draw a conclusion there.

My experience with liberal women is, they are frigid. They play the blame-the-man game to the max.

And a lot of them are not into men if you know what I mean. Whether they say so or not.


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11 Apr 2021, 10:56 am

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a true organization like Antifa.

There is no "Antifa organization". Where did you get such an idea?


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11 Apr 2021, 11:17 am

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French-kissing is pretty good. I think I can draw a conclusion there.

My experience with liberal women is, they are frigid. They play the blame-the-man game to the max.
Yeah, true. I refuse to date any liberal woman at this point. They don't respect men at all, even straight women. That being said, most escorts tend to vote liberal, despite anti-prostitution campaigns being largely bipartisan or apolitical. So I deny and/or downplay my political beliefs when meeting escorts, and they know better than to ask in the first place.


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11 Apr 2021, 11:43 am

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I'm Canadian so I am just going by my experience, but I would say it's the opposite and more people are having sex now than a few years ago. Women may not want to be tied down but when it comes to casual sex, they are not really tied down, since it's just casual. Perhaps that's why a lot more women are open to casual sex now, because it doesn't tie them down.

It makes me wonder how much difference there may be in this regard between Canada and the US. Both countries face a similar state of affairs but it seems the Canadians put more effort and sacrifice into trying to control the spread of COVID-19, but at the end of the day they don't actually seem much better off despite occasional references to "that dumpster file to the South". Recently, the US has tried to "science its way" out of the pandemic with vaccinations, but I'm not convinced that's going to work in the long run.

A big difference though, is that despite Aspie1's bragging about his "secret illegal QAnon party" there have been large super-spreader social engagements all over the US, throughout the Pandemic. I can confidently say that most Americans don't even seem aware there's an ongoing Pandemic. I have the impression this is much less the case in Canada (although Canada DOES have its deniers and anti-maskers, I've been exposed to them). Therefore it's possible that what ironpony sees as a change in women's sexual behavior might very well be less of a phenomenon here.


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11 Apr 2021, 2:19 pm

Well actually, just a last night a couple of hours after I finished typing the last post of mine before on here, another woman I didn't before started talking to me online and then asked me if I wanted to hook up sometime, if we meet up and things look good.

I don't mean to make it sound like I am bragging, I am just trying to point out how it seems that people are much more direct when it comes to casual sex, even a couple of hours after I posted last here.

So I guess it's because of covid then, but if that's the case, I assume men would be more direct about hooking up now too possibly.



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11 Apr 2021, 4:35 pm

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My experience with liberal women is, they are frigid. They play the blame-the-man game to the max.
Yeah, true. I refuse to date any liberal woman at this point..[/quote]

You do realise that biology overrides ideology right. Meghan Markel is a perfect example of a girl who is quintessentially a woke left wing feminist yet she only dated rich, powerful men. Her aspiration to enter the British royal family is actually an anathema to her self-declared philosophy.



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11 Apr 2021, 4:44 pm

Oh okay, I assumed the women who are more open to casual sex and more passionate about it are the liberal ones, unless maybe I am wrong?



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11 Apr 2021, 4:54 pm

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Well actually, just a last night a couple of hours after I finished typing the last post of mine before on here, another woman I didn't before started talking to me online and then asked me if I wanted to hook up sometime, if we meet up and things look good.

I don't mean to make it sound like I am bragging, I am just trying to point out how it seems that people are much more direct when it comes to casual sex, even a couple of hours after I posted last here.

So I guess it's because of covid then, but if that's the case, I assume men would be more direct about hooking up now too possibly.
There's a concept: "If something looks too good to be true, it most definitely is." Most aspie men are not naturally desirable to women; heck, women are sexually attracted to only 20% of men to begin with. So if a woman suddenly started talking to me and offered me sex, my first reaction would be: "I most strongly decline, officer." [implied: she's a cop looking for an arrest] My second reaction would be: "Who's behind this? What does this person want? What's their end goal?"

On the other hand, if the interest was in the line of "I find you attractive; let's talk and maybe meet later." Granted, Covid made people starved for closeness, so they may be more willing to give an otherwise undesired candidate a chance. But no virus will ever fully override women's (and men's) sexual selection instincts.


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11 Apr 2021, 5:04 pm

cyberdad wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
Gentleman Argentum wrote:
My experience with liberal women is, they are frigid. They play the blame-the-man game to the max.
Yeah, true. I refuse to date any liberal woman at this point..


You do realise that biology overrides ideology right. Meghan Markel is a perfect example of a girl who is quintessentially a woke left wing feminist yet she only dated rich, powerful men. Her aspiration to enter the British royal family is actually an anathema to her self-declared philosophy.

As a patriot I deplore this attack on American womanhood. Plus who are you calling a "girl" anyway?


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11 Apr 2021, 5:23 pm

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Well actually, just a last night a couple of hours after I finished typing the last post of mine before on here, another woman I didn't before started talking to me online and then asked me if I wanted to hook up sometime, if we meet up and things look good.

I don't mean to make it sound like I am bragging, I am just trying to point out how it seems that people are much more direct when it comes to casual sex, even a couple of hours after I posted last here.

So I guess it's because of covid then, but if that's the case, I assume men would be more direct about hooking up now too possibly.
There's a concept: "If something looks too good to be true, it most definitely is." Most aspie men are not naturally desirable to women; heck, women are sexually attracted to only 20% of men to begin with. So if a woman suddenly started talking to me and offered me sex, my first reaction would be: "I most strongly decline, officer." [implied: she's a cop looking for an arrest] My second reaction would be: "Who's behind this? What does this person want? What's their end goal?"

On the other hand, if the interest was in the line of "I find you attractive; let's talk and maybe meet later." Granted, Covid made people starved for closeness, so they may be more willing to give an otherwise undesired candidate a chance. But no virus will ever fully override women's (and men's) sexual selection instincts.


Well a lot of the women who have been hitting on me for sex is on online dating sites, so perhaps they do not know I an aspie when they are going by my photos and my profile?

Also I don't mean to sound insulting or judgmental when I say this, because I am not trying to be, but why would your first reaction be a cop looking to make an arrest. Cops don't typically arrest people for saying yes to sex I don't think, so it just seems like it would be an odd first reaction.



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11 Apr 2021, 9:49 pm

The pandemic sped up its demise.


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11 Apr 2021, 9:55 pm

ironpony wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
ironpony wrote:
Well actually, just a last night a couple of hours after I finished typing the last post of mine before on here, another woman I didn't before started talking to me online and then asked me if I wanted to hook up sometime, if we meet up and things look good.

I don't mean to make it sound like I am bragging, I am just trying to point out how it seems that people are much more direct when it comes to casual sex, even a couple of hours after I posted last here.

So I guess it's because of covid then, but if that's the case, I assume men would be more direct about hooking up now too possibly.
There's a concept: "If something looks too good to be true, it most definitely is." Most aspie men are not naturally desirable to women; heck, women are sexually attracted to only 20% of men to begin with. So if a woman suddenly started talking to me and offered me sex, my first reaction would be: "I most strongly decline, officer." [implied: she's a cop looking for an arrest] My second reaction would be: "Who's behind this? What does this person want? What's their end goal?"

On the other hand, if the interest was in the line of "I find you attractive; let's talk and maybe meet later." Granted, Covid made people starved for closeness, so they may be more willing to give an otherwise undesired candidate a chance. But no virus will ever fully override women's (and men's) sexual selection instincts.


Well a lot of the women who have been hitting on me for sex is on online dating sites, so perhaps they do not know I an aspie when they are going by my photos and my profile?

Also I don't mean to sound insulting or judgmental when I say this, because I am not trying to be, but why would your first reaction be a cop looking to make an arrest. Cops don't typically arrest people for saying yes to sex I don't think, so it just seems like it would be an odd first reaction.


It is an odd reaction.

Unless he believes the only people might be interested in sleeping with him are children or sex trade workers who intend on asking for money explicitly before initiating the encounter.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who saw through how unsound the logic used in that post was.


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11 Apr 2021, 11:01 pm

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The pandemic sped up its demise.


Rumours of it's demise will turn out to be sorely unfounded.


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ironpony wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
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Well actually, just a last night a couple of hours after I finished typing the last post of mine before on here, another woman I didn't before started talking to me online and then asked me if I wanted to hook up sometime, if we meet up and things look good.

I don't mean to make it sound like I am bragging, I am just trying to point out how it seems that people are much more direct when it comes to casual sex, even a couple of hours after I posted last here.

So I guess it's because of covid then, but if that's the case, I assume men would be more direct about hooking up now too possibly.
There's a concept: "If something looks too good to be true, it most definitely is." Most aspie men are not naturally desirable to women; heck, women are sexually attracted to only 20% of men to begin with. So if a woman suddenly started talking to me and offered me sex, my first reaction would be: "I most strongly decline, officer." [implied: she's a cop looking for an arrest] My second reaction would be: "Who's behind this? What does this person want? What's their end goal?"

On the other hand, if the interest was in the line of "I find you attractive; let's talk and maybe meet later." Granted, Covid made people starved for closeness, so they may be more willing to give an otherwise undesired candidate a chance. But no virus will ever fully override women's (and men's) sexual selection instincts.


Well a lot of the women who have been hitting on me for sex is on online dating sites, so perhaps they do not know I an aspie when they are going by my photos and my profile?

Also I don't mean to sound insulting or judgmental when I say this, because I am not trying to be, but why would your first reaction be a cop looking to make an arrest. Cops don't typically arrest people for saying yes to sex I don't think, so it just seems like it would be an odd first reaction.


It means you are very good looking, while he’s not - hence why some men can’t relate with your experience.