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18 Apr 2021, 10:57 am

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Pressure to do what? have sex?

Subconscious pressure to copulate and propagate the species manifested through an instinct to have special human relations, perhaps under the name of 'the horns.'

Or you have been acting like a Don Juan around election times for some reason. Does it make You copulate, is the question


Have I been acting like that? Well I have been only responding to women's advances and propositions, and noticed that they are coming onto me much more than ever before over the last year or so, but especially the last few months. Some of them I go for and some of them I turn down. So I thought maybe it had something to do with the election.



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18 Apr 2021, 11:08 am

ironpony wrote:
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Pressure to do what? have sex?

Subconscious pressure to copulate and propagate the species manifested through an instinct to have special human relations, perhaps under the name of 'the horns.'

Or you have been acting like a Don Juan around election times for some reason. Does it make You copulate, is the question


Have I been acting like that? Well I have been only responding to women's advances and propositions, and noticed that they are coming onto me much more than ever before over the last year or so, but especially the last few months. Some of them I go for and some of them I turn down. So I thought maybe it had something to do with the election.

Do you know when this election will take place? Google doesn't seem to have the answer. Will this be the end for the Liberals? Perhaps these women fear that Conservatives will pass a law against casual sex.


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18 Apr 2021, 11:21 am

I meant the last Presidential election a few months ago.



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18 Apr 2021, 11:26 am

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I meant the last Presidential election a few months ago.

There is apparently a possibility a Federal election will take place in Canada this year, I suppose due to dissatisfaction with how JT and his government have handled the pandemic.

However, I can't see how an election that took place six months ago in the US is making Canadian women horny. Too bad there aren't any Canadian women on this thread who can shed light on this (to me) puzzling phenomenon.


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18 Apr 2021, 11:30 am

I don't know but I am just going by the timing. Covid and US election around the same time, a bunch of Canadian women became horny. Connection, or coincidence...



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18 Apr 2021, 6:20 pm

Rexi wrote:
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Pressure to do what? have sex?

Subconscious pressure to copulate and propagate the species manifested through an instinct to have special human relations, perhaps under the name of 'the horns.'


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19 Apr 2021, 4:49 am

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No.. something to form a physical barrier between people that still allows for sex. Sheet, curtain, wall, plastic whatever from the waist up or with a hole in it etc.
This sounds scarily similar to a Jewish stereotype---and a false one, at that---of having sex through a hole in a sheet.

That sounds wonderful, like Halloween ghost sheet lovin'.

But you only need a helm, like Hakaima Sadamitsu, the other one is the top. Pillow princess gets the helm [I wonder what is Pillow Princess in gay terms]


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19 Apr 2021, 5:56 am

Rexi wrote:
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No.. something to form a physical barrier between people that still allows for sex. Sheet, curtain, wall, plastic whatever from the waist up or with a hole in it etc.
This sounds scarily similar to a Jewish stereotype---and a false one, at that---of having sex through a hole in a sheet.

That sounds wonderful, like Halloween ghost sheet lovin'.

But you only need a helm, like Hakaima Sadamitsu, the other one is the top. Pillow princess gets the helm [I wonder what is Pillow Princess in gay terms]


Seriously Rexi, have you stopped developing your part of our suit? Darn, I was sure you was onto something there.
I have still not fixed the inhaling part its so tricky. And isn't it Pillow Prince? I may be out at sea with one paddle though :D



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19 Apr 2021, 10:50 am

ironpony wrote:
I don't know but I am just going by the timing. Covid and US election around the same time, a bunch of Canadian women became horny. Connection, or coincidence...


My guess is if there's any correlation to the US election it's simply that the tone has changed from, well, trumpism to back to reality basics & science. Covid in the USA is starting to get under control via mass vaccination, the daily news is more positive, the weather is changing to Sunny Spring days, annnd people are sick of waiting since it's been like a year and a half.. so, even though Covid isn't under control in Canada, things feel better so people are out taking risks banging each other gain.


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20 Apr 2021, 9:47 pm

Oh okay, I thought maybe it was a rise in feminism and women feel more rebellious in their sexuality do it, but maybe it's not feminism related at all?



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20 Apr 2021, 9:58 pm

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Oh okay, I thought maybe it was a rise in feminism and women feel more rebellious in their sexuality do it, but maybe it's not feminism related at all?

Yes and no. Feminism made women more open to having sex as they pleased. But... only with the small percentage of men they're naturally attracted to. (And for LGBT women, each other as well.) Your average Joe Blow ended up worse off than before feminism entered the equation.

For me personally today, I don't really care, since my sex drive is nearly dead. And the few times it rears its ugly head, I hire an escort. But I hope other men can either find at least some girlfriend, or let their sex drive die out too.



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20 Apr 2021, 10:05 pm

Oh okay, but how is that the average is worse off though if more feminists are having sex. Sure there may be more LGBTQ women now but there is still more women wanting to have hederosexual sex, so I thought average guys would be betting more too, from women who would want them.



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20 Apr 2021, 10:10 pm

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Oh okay, but how is that the average is worse off though if more feminists are having sex. Sure there may be more LGBTQ women now but there is still more women wanting to have hederosexual sex, so I thought average guys would be betting more too, from women who would want them.
Nope, not even close, sorry. Women are naturally attracted only to the topmost good-looking men; to average men, not so much. LGBT women, on the other hand, are attracted to the average woman. I'd elaborate on it more, but Mr. Plank and the mods he recruited will have me "canceled" for it. DuckDuckGo (not Google, god forbid!) is your friend.



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20 Apr 2021, 10:50 pm

I know, from experience, that there are heterosexual women who are attracted to “average”-looking guys.



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20 Apr 2021, 11:04 pm

But I thought when it came to hooking up that women tend to go for guys they can get. For example a woman who is a 4/10 cannot get a guy is a 10, but wouldn't she therefore want to hook up with a guy who she could get?



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20 Apr 2021, 11:07 pm

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But I thought when it came to hooking up that women tend to go for guys they can get. For example a woman who is a 4/10 cannot get a guy is a 10, but wouldn't she therefore want to hook up with a guy who she could get?



That's what Kraftie's saying.
That's been my experience.

I'm not sure someone who needs to pay for sex is someone I'd take advice from on this topic. By the logic those types use to justify their purchase (oh, well everyone pays because sometimes you need to go on a date before it happens) I've gotten paid more than I've ever paid out, and it's not very sound logic to begin with.


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