18 Oct 2021, 3:16 am
But also getting involved with church activities also is a good way to network and meet folks as well.
And...WTF is it about your parents anyway? Do they think that they live in a traditional village in India, or in Medeaval Europe where they have arranged marriages? Even if THATS the case then... they should have found you a bride themselves by this time.
Maybe you should ask your mom and day "when are you gonna have a enough goats saved up for barter to buy me a bride?".
Well there is just not many people at church who are in a similar situation and place in life to me because most of them are married and raising a family or retired.There is not any possibities for me to date.I cant go on dating sites because their name is on the bank account so i would risk jail if I did that.I am afraid I wont want to get married by the time I am finally able to.
uhh it is legal to go on dating sites, how would your parents get you sent to jail for using a dating site? that does not make any sense sorry...
I got banned from tinder for politely asking if this man wanted to have a baby with me. Snow flakes. Are you Mormon? Scientologists,jahova witness? Church of England?
Can’t you get your own money? What do your parents do for a living?
church of Christ.I have been trying to get the state to help me get a job for about a decade but I cant get any jobs here that pay a living wage because the oilfield does not hire disabled people or autistic people.
Don’t tell them you have a disability. They can’t legally ask you nor do you have to legally disclose.
well the people from the job coach thing basically told me that people with autism cant work on drilling rigs.I have to have a job coach to work.She told that drilling rigs are exempt because they are so dangerous.
Oil rigs ban autistic people from working on them? It's a gruelling job and probably not a suitable one for you personally anyway given the fact you'll be going from long term unemployment to entering a boisterous and dangerous environment with long hours. I'm sure banning people with autism from working on them however is illegal.
Ya the oil industry around here bans the disabled and autistic.Sadly the oilfield is the only way for most people to make a living wage in the area.I am only legally allowed to work part time anyways.
Even the high functioning autistics?
well i think it just depends.Its mostly the engineers and geoglists and scientists who are autistic in the oilfield I would say.However I think there are lots of undiagnosed ones in the oilfield.But they wont even put us high functioning autistics in a blue collar oilfield job if they know.Right now I am just building up oil money for my next deal whether it be energy or real estate since nobody will hire me.
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01 Nov 2021, 8:38 am
Even when I was a christian though I still always had a problem with that commandment of respecting the parents, sure good to have some respect...but some parents are abusive and or neglectful and quite frankly why should you go out of your way to respect them if they are like that. I say that is one of the worst commandments, no one chooses their family but one can choose who they cut out of their life and who they keep in it.
I guess I say to hell with what your parents say, you should find a way to get independent from them they aren't helping you.
I guess if that dooms me to hell so be it, at least it sounds a little more interesting and an aesthetic I'd prefer to that of heaven so idk it may not be so bad.
I would happily join the two of you having that beer if I was invited 
Sounds like a very interesting time. I kinda think of life on earth as hell thou.
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01 Nov 2021, 11:07 am
I cant resist asking you this OP. Why is your SN "Texasmoneyman300" if you don't have money 
I also want to apologize for getting argumentative with you in that thread in PPR. I had the wrong impression of you & I misjudged you. I'm sorry. I'm very used to people misjudging me & having wrong impressions about me so I need to be more careful about doing that to others.
My mom used to threaten to kick me out onto the streets a lot when I was living with my parents & not working as an adult. When I was a teen she would also threatened to send me to military school, send me to juvi, or put me up for adoption when me & her had bad fights which was very often. Mom never actually did any of that thou. Manipulation, guilt trips, & idle threats do NOT work on me. I get p!ssy & very argumentative & I'll quickly go into Aspie meltdown mode & act psycho if the person doesn't back off rite away. I got on SSI when I was 20 after trying my best to find employment with no luck for over a year & I ended up falling into a psychotic depression cuz of mom being on my back & my 1st relationship falling apart. I had my own bank account & I never gave my parents any of my SSI money even thou I was officially supposed to. About half of that money went towards my medical expenses & I was paying for my own phone, & our internet & cable bill, & my personal stuff but my personal stuff was usually not much at all. I could only afford to give my parents money for my expenses like utilities & food when I was working. We looked into trying to get me in something like a group home but I didn't have the right diagnoses or wasn't severely disabled enough by specific disabilities even thou I have lots of various disabilities & the combination majorly limits me. It seems like in order to qualify for lots of various assistance programs you have to either have connections or be in the system as a kid. It's much harder to start the process as an adult without some kinda help getting your foot in the door.
Do your parents have guardianship of you I'd imagine that would make it a lot harder for you to get out from your parents control if they do. The news I heard about the Free Britney movement about how Britney Spears is being controlled by her dad so he can keep taking her money & how she isn't even allowed to have a phone makes guardianship sound alot like slavery.
01 Nov 2021, 5:14 pm
I also want to apologize for getting argumentative with you in that thread in PPR. I had the wrong impression of you & I misjudged you. I'm sorry. I'm very used to people misjudging me & having wrong impressions about me so I need to be more careful about doing that to others.My mom used to threaten to kick me out onto the streets a lot when I was living with my parents & not working as an adult. When I was a teen she would also threatened to send me to military school, send me to juvi, or put me up for adoption when me & her had bad fights which was very often. Mom never actually did any of that thou. Manipulation, guilt trips, & idle threats do NOT work on me. I get p!ssy & very argumentative & I'll quickly go into Aspie meltdown mode & act psycho if the person doesn't back off rite away. I got on SSI when I was 20 after trying my best to find employment with no luck for over a year & I ended up falling into a psychotic depression cuz of mom being on my back & my 1st relationship falling apart. I had my own bank account & I never gave my parents any of my SSI money even thou I was officially supposed to. About half of that money went towards my medical expenses & I was paying for my own phone, & our internet & cable bill, & my personal stuff but my personal stuff was usually not much at all. I could only afford to give my parents money for my expenses like utilities & food when I was working. We looked into trying to get me in something like a group home but I didn't have the right diagnoses or wasn't severely disabled enough by specific disabilities even thou I have lots of various disabilities & the combination majorly limits me. It seems like in order to qualify for lots of various assistance programs you have to either have connections or be in the system as a kid. It's much harder to start the process as an adult without some kinda help getting your foot in the door.
Do your parents have guardianship of you
I'd imagine that would make it a lot harder for you to get out from your parents control if they do. The news I heard about the Free Britney movement about how Britney Spears is being controlled by her dad so he can keep taking her money & how she isn't even allowed to have a phone makes guardianship sound alot like slavery.Well i did it because personal finance is one of my major special interests and I hope to be rich one day and my dad suggested it as my user name.Its fine dont worry about it man.My parents dont have guardianship over me.I also did it to pay tribute to the Texas Old 300
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