Why Some People Wind Up Becoming 30 Year Old Virgins

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Im a involuntarily celibate woman. 28 years old. living at home with family and in long distance internet based relationship with a disabled man. Hes not autistic but he is in a wheelchair and has a trach tube.

The concept of sex never appealed to me until i was 19 and when i was raped by a man i did not know well, and got sick from it. Luckily i was cured of the STD but it was still a traumatic experience. i would then go on to have reckless adventures with men until i finally came home STD free and no pregnancies happened and found my fiance online through a fetish website.

Personally, being a virgin only started to bug me at 18, only because my best friend had lost hers and i was jealous . That led me down a dangerous route of searching for someone who would not only get me out of my house with parents at 19 but have sex with me too.


I have been celibate for nearly 3 -4 years now and even now i dont do anything sexual, its rare if i do. my partner is very sexual and has a high sex drive, but he knows i do not and he respects that it is rare we have any kind of sexual conversation.

Sex work to me, used to be repulsive, i was not only jealous of the beautiful women using their bodies to make money by selling vids of themselves for profit, but i was mad that "us women would stoop that low" for men and women alike.


To me, i grew up knowing about playboy but that was the extent of it. I was not taught sex the normal way, i got the puberty talk at 12 in school and a "Flow" talk at 13 with my mother but that was it. the rest i learned through men online as a Teen. And let me just say, any young women out there who consider getting with a stranger for losing their V card, please dont do it. its risky and condoms dont protect you from everything.

As for men, Well..im with a virgin man, hes 39 and in a wheelchair. hes only been kissed once and that was at 14 years old. So, im his first. And i LOVE that. I like that i can be his first experience that way. To show that a loving and caring female CAN make him feel good without shame.

You dont need looks or money if its the right girl. she will see you and simply go, your mine end of story. in the most romantic sense of word.

different for men and women

yes, if i were female chances are i'd have been married by now.

ya, i resent human nature at times

^^^human nature stinks big wind, and i hate it always. if i win big in the lotto, you will be the first person i buy a dolly for.

As far as this whole notion goes that many guys cannot get sex from women no matter how much they try, do these guys perhaps set their standards too high, and just need to go for women that are just not attractive at all maybe?