Does sex require a bond/connection?

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I don't believe random sex is "immoral" or "bad" or whatever. If all parties consent.

Though I do believe it can be risky.

Well, we should not forget also, some people form a bond/connection for the primary purpose of getting laid, and to be honest with you, I think thats unfair for the other person, most of the time the woman, to be in such a bond/connection, although it could also be a normal relationship too. I'd be the last person on earth to ever treat a woman like she is a sex toy, I enjoy getting laid generally but thats not the only thing I think about when I date somebody. Also, I'm the type of man who respects a woman's decision to "wait for now", as in, if I ask her about getting laid and she doesnt seem to be interested, I'll not even ask "why" most of the time, I'll just move forward to talk about a different subject, in the conversation. Being a patient man with a woman is important, eventually most relationships result in getting laid at some point anyways, it depends on how ready, or not ready, the woman is. I think most men are ready for getting laid quite early in relationships, its the women who need more time to get ready for it. Hey guys, can you share what you think about that, actually? It'd be interesting to hear. How long did it take your girlfriend to agree to get laid, for example? For me, it took as long as 1 month before we got laid for the first time, although she had left me by now, but I remember it very clearly.

Most (if not all?) humans want to be desired for who they are in and of themselves. To be loved, as it were. Not to be used for whatever they may be able to offer (money, sex, status, etc).