Shorter than average invisible in clubs

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Plenty of short men don't have any problems dating. You know what is unattractive about short men? their insecurity - especially when they lie about their height.

It is incontrovertible that shorter men have a harder time attracting women than tall men do.

Then don't approach women at bars or clubs.

Bars and clubs tend to be heavily looks oriented. For one thing, people usually don't go there to find a long term partner; they go there to get laid and to hookup. And in any short term type of relationship, there is a greater emphasis on looks.


If you want to meet a woman, you should be playing to your strengths. If you're ugly or look like a nerd, then maybe bars arne't your best bet. Instead, join social circles that are related to your interests and you'd probably have better results.

The best place to find a partner depends on your overall personality, strengths, and challenges.


Write down a list of qualities about yourself including your age, physical appearance, interests, and values. And then look in places where women are more likely to find these qualities attractive.

For example, let's say you're a 25 year old devout Christian man. Your best bet for meeting a woman would be at a church. This is because you're more likely to meet women with your shared values and the type of women who find christian men appealable would likely be at a church.


If you're a 20 year old who's extroverted and likes to drink beer and watch sports, then join a fraternity or meet women at bars because women who share these similar values are more likely to frequent these places hence they are more of a compatible match.



Figure out the kind of person you are and then look in places where women might find your type attractive.