kraftiekortie wrote:
I've known many "experienced" people who were really not all that proficient in sexual matters; and I've known relatively inexperienced people who were quite proficient.
I'm sure those people exist, but that doesn't change the fact that inexperienced people are generally going to need time and experience before they reach the level of sexual proficiency that is expected from the average experienced person.
Twilightprincess wrote:
Rather than making long posts about theories, it might be a good idea to go out and try meeting people. You might even meet a woman who thinks all of this nonsense is nonsense, and you could have a chance with her, as long as you don’t start giving long monologues about what women “actually” want.
If it was that easy for us guys on the spectrum to meet someone and make that connection, we probably wouldn't be posting here about virginity and struggles finding a partner.
There don't seem to be a lot of viable avenues for finding romantic partners in this day and age, and us guys on the spectrum face additional challenges with the onus being placed on men to initiate courtship and correctly read whether the woman is interested or not. Skills that are of course often deficient in autistic individuals.
I wish it really was as easy as just going outside and being fortunate enough to meet someone.