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07 Jul 2022, 11:31 pm

Men with big penises frequently hurt women because they don’t know their own size, so to speak.

Penny grew up. She had enough of the idiot Chads. Leonard gave her the ultimate satisfaction.



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07 Jul 2022, 11:33 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Men with big penises frequently hurt women because they don’t know their own size, so to speak.

Penny grew up. She had enough of the idiot Chads. Leonard gave her the ultimate satisfaction.


I prefer average or less although it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker. It’s not that important.



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07 Jul 2022, 11:44 pm

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
I'm sure those people exist, but that doesn't change the fact that inexperienced people are generally going to need time and experience before they reach the level of sexual proficiency that is expected from the average experienced person.


Please don't believe the sexist rhetoric and shaming in this thread.

People have suggested:

All desirable men have sex by the end of high school or age 18. Not true.
There are levels of sexual proficiency for men, which virgins can't achieve. Not true.
Men are either alpha or beta, and women only like alphas. Not true.
Men need to tell their partners and / or strangers that they are virgins. Not true.
Virgin men are easily identified by women. Not true.
Virgin men can be accused of "rape by deception". Not true.
Men can be arrested for hiding their virginity if their partner doesn't ask. Not true.
Men should lie to their partner and deceive them, before sticking their "wang" in them. ???! !! !
Women might gag just from looking at beta males. Not true.
Virgin men are failures, somehow, and they aren't desirable. Not true.

Then we also have descriptive play-by-plays telling how to arouse women sexually.
Your first goal is to be comfortable enough to meet a woman you like.
You and your partner will figure out the rest of it, yourselves.

I'm sorry you've had such a difficult time meeting women.


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07 Jul 2022, 11:48 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Men with big penises frequently hurt women because they don’t know their own size, so to speak.

Penny grew up. She had enough of the idiot Chads. Leonard gave her the ultimate satisfaction.


That filthy bugger, he doesn't look nearly flexible enough to pull that off. 8O


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07 Jul 2022, 11:48 pm

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kraftiekortie wrote:
In my experience, sex is a very instinctual thing. My main problem at the start was not knowing the anatomy of a woman; this caused problems until I learned the anatomy.

Once you know the anatomy, if the man understands that a woman must be turned on and wet before the man deigns to “enter” her, and the woman has a high regard for the man outside of bed, then the man will probably be “proficient” enough. He doesn’t have to be Long Dong Silver or whoever.

The men who rely on their “technical” knowledge often fail when it comes to actually pleasing a woman.

By the same token, very few of my lovers were “proficient” in a “technical” sense. They didn’t need to be. Their loveliness was enough to satisfy me. So what if a woman has “technique.” I’ve grown cold to women who had the “technical” knowhow, yet none of the loveliness.


I’m going to need to take a cold shower. :oops:


I'm going to need a barf bucket.


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07 Jul 2022, 11:52 pm

My point is that when people dig each other, it comes naturally.

That’s exactly the point I was trying to make.

No other point.

“Technique” means nothing when it comes to lovely lovemaking.

I see nothing barfworthy in what I wrote.



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07 Jul 2022, 11:53 pm

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I see nothing barfworthy in what I wrote.


Everyone's mileage will vary.


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07 Jul 2022, 11:55 pm

Of course…..where did I say it didn’t?

You can’t please the world all the time.

It’s not necessary to be nasty. I wasn’t nasty to anybody else.



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07 Jul 2022, 11:58 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Of course…..where did I say it didn’t?


I'm not saying you didn't, I'm mostly saying I wouldn't get too invested in it unless serious offence was caused.


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08 Jul 2022, 12:00 am

I don’t see where I created “serious offense.”

That’s not what I want.

All I was doing was trying to explain to Grand Inquisitor that “experience” and “technique” are not the be-all, end-all. That’s it. No other intentions.



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08 Jul 2022, 12:02 am

Sorry Kraftie.

I didn't mean to sound harsh, but it's nauseating for me to read all this nonsense from men about what women want, or what pleases them sexually. Women keep speaking up with their own opinions and being ignored, or told that they're wrong. There's a message that men know better what women like, than women do.

This kind of mansplaining and sexism has been rampant on WP lately, to an extent that very few women bother posting anymore. I look around for other women to speak with and it seems the forum is mostly men spinning a false narrative about what women like or think.


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08 Jul 2022, 12:06 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I don’t see where I created “serious offense.”


I wasn't suggesting that you did, I was saying in a situation where you hypothetically caused offence, you'd have been told more clearly than that since as far as I know you two are on good terms.

That's why I was saying I'd have not worried about the barfing comment at all.


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08 Jul 2022, 12:09 am

I don’t feel I was “mansplaining” at all.

A poster was concerned about “experience” and “technique.” I told him my experience…..that “technique” usually doesn’t mean all that much. That women usually don’t judge the worthiness of a man based upon his “experience.”

Just like a woman might mention that, from their experience, that men sometimes do this or that, for whatever reason. I wouldn’t call that “womansplaining.” I would respect their experience with men.



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08 Jul 2022, 12:09 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Sorry Kraftie.

I didn't mean to sound harsh, but it's nauseating for me to read all this nonsense from men about what women want, or what pleases them sexually. Women keep speaking up with their own opinions and being ignored, or told that they're wrong. There's a message that men know better what women like, than women do.

This kind of mansplaining and sexism has been rampant on WP lately, to an extent that very few women bother posting anymore. I look around for other women to speak with and it seems the forum is mostly men spinning a false narrative about what women like or think.


This is how L&D’s mostly always been.

I have more of a problem with some of the other posts in this thread, but they are just like the ones that bothered me years ago.

Sometimes male posters tell women directly that they are wrong when they state what they like or certain guys will say that it goes against female’s evolutionary genes, no matter what you say to the contrary.



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08 Jul 2022, 12:10 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I don’t feel I was “mansplaining” at all.

A poster was concerned about “experience” and “technique.” I told him my experience…..that “technique” usually doesn’t mean all that much. That women usually don’t judge the worthiness of a man based upon his “experience.”


Not all women’s tastes are the same although this is how I would feel.

Generalizations have been a problem on this thread.



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08 Jul 2022, 12:13 am

Where did I say all woman’s tastes are the same?