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13 Dec 2009, 11:01 pm

Yoga. Take up yoga.



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14 Dec 2009, 12:29 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
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Chasing girls in college gets harder in tougher in some ways. At a community college, girls tend to be immature at community colleges, but at normal colleges, they are more mature than in high school. you learn more and have a better idea of what to do. Girls think more often about marriage and there are many more girls then guys. The problem is that people are busier.


No, the problem is that there are none of them...

It might depend on the size of your school. My school has 44,000 students. I went to a branch campus which had 1,500. Which one do you think had all the girls?


It's also because of the fact that I go to an engineering university. I wanted a degree I could get a job with out of undergrad, so I went with the Information Technology track. I could have been a music major and have the 4:1 gender ratio inverted, but I chose IT because I can get some decent money with a bachelor's...

(PS: that also answers amazon's comment...)


Yes it does.

The program I'm in now is the total opposite. There are 20 people in my class and out of the 20 there are 2 dudes including myself :lol:


What program are you in?


Behavior Analysis M.S. program, Southern Illinois University.


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14 Dec 2009, 1:29 am

That explains it... women seem to flock to the psychology-related programs...



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15 Dec 2009, 1:43 am

Well ive heard that girls like it when guys are mean to them, like they find it attractive and idk why.

are girls attracted to trucks?

my friends are all people who like to party and then when i try to go for the girls that they hang around i keep gettin told that im not their type. im sick of hearing that, obviouisly i gotta be the right person for someone. but i guess not........



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15 Dec 2009, 3:47 am

trojan51 wrote:
To start it off, i am a senior in high school. I just turned 18 and i have never had a girlfriend before, but i didnt really start to try and look for one till about a year ago. I am not the hottest guy around but im certainly above average looking. I am 6'2" and weigh 163 pounds or so so im not that big. I have this huge desire to get a girlfriend. I have friends and all of them have one or have had one in the past. I also have friends that are girls.

I drive a 1997 Toyota Tacoma single cab. Will that attract girls for having a truck?

I deliver pizzas for papa johns. Does having a job attract more girls?

Im kinda scared to talk to girls at school, but will getting girls get easier at community college or university?
might help to read that back to yourself.

secondly girls & guys aren't really all that different in such respects.
so try this the other way around and use the same answer to predict the outcome:

let's say you weren't necessarily looking for a girl, and you happened to briefly see a female equivalent of yourself (in looks & general personality) with a truck in passing, would it spark your interest particularly more than any other girl with any other type of car you saw that day?

the answer is prolly not particularly. The truck isn't some cool magic accessory that will just make you desirable just for owning it.
it just means you have a way to get around. women will prolly take in the fact passively, and all it will mean to them is, okay so he can drive. cool. nextttt.

it's not so much about what you have or where you are that attracts girls, it's in how you present yourself.


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16 Dec 2009, 12:37 am

that could very very true about the truck. when i think of girls i could be interested in talking to and trying to hook up with, i dont judge them fully on their cars, but the fact that she has one and drives makes me more likely to want her as i dont have to waste all my own gas lol