Therapy for women obsession.

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I think that's pretty much every guy's fantasy. Only most guys know that that doesn't happen unless your Hugh Heffner so they don't think about it much.

Absolutely! Sex is pretty great but it's not like the heavens part and flights of angels pass over head when a woman takes her top off. Many women are just as scared of use as you are of them. Women, just like men, deep down just want to be liked for who they are. Genuinely show interest in a women as a person and avoid staring at their boobs, if they still blow you off, they are shallow barbie dolls who aren't worth your time.

I did "everything else" with the girl I dated...she was just holding out with the actual sex and predictably lost interest in me.

I don't even care about it being special. I know to a lot of young women I'm average looking. I just want to complete the act with a woman that I'm reasonably physically attracted to and doesn't have a bad attitude.

i'm part of that 30% too, i've never had one.
Hardly ever have sexual dreams either, those are pretty rare for me.
& even when they are sexual, they generally never actually include actual sex.
Though i've noticed my dreams have been a bit more sexual as of late.
& recent dreams have included boobs. I take this as a sign of good things (dreams) to come.

actually, on the whole, my dreams in general have become alot more vivid and interesting in recent months. Not just in sexual ways either.
before recently, my dreams had only been vague, confusing, and incoherent jumbles that i typically didn't remember upon waking.

but lately i've been having dreams that are more interesting to me than A-list movies. I've even tried to go back to sleep at times if i wake up in the middle, just to see how they play out.

I had one a week ago in which shady Russian guys were chasing after me in an urban area, and there were guns, and fire, explosions, and for some reason i had a bunch of earrings with precious stones in them that i'd gotten from the bad guys who were trying to get them back, and i toppled a huge 50-foot statue of their leader with dynamite, then everything froze over in a sudden ice-storm and i was climbing through areas of destroyed buildings and patches of flaming rubble 'cause i'd finally lost them and i was trying to covertly sneak away through the aftermath. Then i woke up.

I don't have wet dreams, just dreams where I'm fooling around or having sex with women and about 4 or 5 days a week.

usually any variety in the location or style of the dream sex at least?
i'd think i'd prolly get tired of sex dreams if they were always exactly the same every time

Celebrities, multiple women at the same time, model-looking women, milfs, in the shower...that's why I said even Hugh Hefner would be jealous...and for a while, that's probably why my standards were so high. Now I'm just looking for a "cute" girl that doesn't have an attitude.

So, again, you're having therapy for being like every other straight male? I mean, I'm always hearing statistics that your average man thinks about sex every 10 seconds or something like that. What you're experiencing isn't abnormal.

Hopefully not.