23 Oct 2011, 2:43 pm
MR20 wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
Maybe you should watch this. I found it on the web, it's a show from England about people who probably have greater deformities than you:
http://www.channel4.com/programmes/kati ... ul-friends
The confidence of some of the people interviewed in this program was fantastic.
It's what's inside that counts, don't beat yourself up about looks. Everyone has something they want to change about their body.
They are truly some of the strongest people in the world. To go out in public looking like that, w/o complete regard to how people talk about and judge them. Back in my teens, I've seen people miss school because they thought someone might notice a pimple on their face. I truly admire people like that, and I can only hope to have the some courage and strength as them one day.
I hate hearing that people have told you that you are ugly. What is wrong with people!? Of cours you don't feel good about your looks. Im indian and live in a mostly white location and my nose is bigger than sort of average mid-western germanic people and I got made fun of. But now i'm older I think it's part of my heritage how I look, why should i look germanic when i'm not. Ignore people, people can be so narrow minded.
Yeah, but it's hard ignoring and not believing something you've heard a lot throughout you life, by both genders. I still get "disgust" looks from strangers. I almost want to say "wtf are you looking at? huh? do you have problem with me or something?".
But, for the love of pete, if you know you should wash, why don't you! A bar of soap costs pennies. Or find a girl with no sense of smell. I am being slightly jokey slightly serious . Soap is your friend
I know I should, but I struggle mightily with motivation to do it.
http://www.channel4.com/programmes/kati ... ul-friends
The confidence of some of the people interviewed in this program was fantastic.
It's what's inside that counts, don't beat yourself up about looks. Everyone has something they want to change about their body.
They are truly some of the strongest people in the world. To go out in public looking like that, w/o complete regard to how people talk about and judge them. Back in my teens, I've seen people miss school because they thought someone might notice a pimple on their face. I truly admire people like that, and I can only hope to have the some courage and strength as them one day.
I hate hearing that people have told you that you are ugly. What is wrong with people!? Of cours you don't feel good about your looks. Im indian and live in a mostly white location and my nose is bigger than sort of average mid-western germanic people and I got made fun of. But now i'm older I think it's part of my heritage how I look, why should i look germanic when i'm not. Ignore people, people can be so narrow minded.
Yeah, but it's hard ignoring and not believing something you've heard a lot throughout you life, by both genders. I still get "disgust" looks from strangers. I almost want to say "wtf are you looking at? huh? do you have problem with me or something?".
But, for the love of pete, if you know you should wash, why don't you! A bar of soap costs pennies. Or find a girl with no sense of smell. I am being slightly jokey slightly serious . Soap is your friend
I know I should, but I struggle mightily with motivation to do it.
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MR20, i am very happy about your responses here. you are starting to demonstrate a real maturity and reflectiveness in some of your posts. i think you are on the cusp of starting something great with yourself. (((hugs)))
23 Oct 2011, 6:40 pm
hyperlexian wrote:
MR20 wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
Maybe you should watch this. I found it on the web, it's a show from England about people who probably have greater deformities than you:
http://www.channel4.com/programmes/kati ... ul-friends
The confidence of some of the people interviewed in this program was fantastic.
It's what's inside that counts, don't beat yourself up about looks. Everyone has something they want to change about their body.
They are truly some of the strongest people in the world. To go out in public looking like that, w/o complete regard to how people talk about and judge them. Back in my teens, I've seen people miss school because they thought someone might notice a pimple on their face. I truly admire people like that, and I can only hope to have the some courage and strength as them one day.
I hate hearing that people have told you that you are ugly. What is wrong with people!? Of cours you don't feel good about your looks. Im indian and live in a mostly white location and my nose is bigger than sort of average mid-western germanic people and I got made fun of. But now i'm older I think it's part of my heritage how I look, why should i look germanic when i'm not. Ignore people, people can be so narrow minded.
Yeah, but it's hard ignoring and not believing something you've heard a lot throughout you life, by both genders. I still get "disgust" looks from strangers. I almost want to say "wtf are you looking at? huh? do you have problem with me or something?".
But, for the love of pete, if you know you should wash, why don't you! A bar of soap costs pennies. Or find a girl with no sense of smell. I am being slightly jokey slightly serious . Soap is your friend
I know I should, but I struggle mightily with motivation to do it.
http://www.channel4.com/programmes/kati ... ul-friends
The confidence of some of the people interviewed in this program was fantastic.
It's what's inside that counts, don't beat yourself up about looks. Everyone has something they want to change about their body.
They are truly some of the strongest people in the world. To go out in public looking like that, w/o complete regard to how people talk about and judge them. Back in my teens, I've seen people miss school because they thought someone might notice a pimple on their face. I truly admire people like that, and I can only hope to have the some courage and strength as them one day.
I hate hearing that people have told you that you are ugly. What is wrong with people!? Of cours you don't feel good about your looks. Im indian and live in a mostly white location and my nose is bigger than sort of average mid-western germanic people and I got made fun of. But now i'm older I think it's part of my heritage how I look, why should i look germanic when i'm not. Ignore people, people can be so narrow minded.
Yeah, but it's hard ignoring and not believing something you've heard a lot throughout you life, by both genders. I still get "disgust" looks from strangers. I almost want to say "wtf are you looking at? huh? do you have problem with me or something?".
But, for the love of pete, if you know you should wash, why don't you! A bar of soap costs pennies. Or find a girl with no sense of smell. I am being slightly jokey slightly serious . Soap is your friend
I know I should, but I struggle mightily with motivation to do it.
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MR20, i am very happy about your responses here. you are starting to demonstrate a real maturity and reflectiveness in some of your posts. i think you are on the cusp of starting something great with yourself. (((hugs)))
Thanks for the kind words I guess, and the hugs.
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23 Oct 2011, 9:04 pm
MR20 wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
i'm certain that you aren't ugly in the manner that you describe. i've seen ugly, and i know that you cannot have reached that level in your youth. why don't you just show us the webcam image of you? you have nothing to fear from any of us here, who only want to be helpful.
The pics would be very blurry, you wouldn't be able to make out hardly anything.
a blurry pic is better than no pic.
