Do most men on WP hate women?

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I posted earlier that I hadn't come across any men that hate woman on here... I take that back. I just saw the "am I attractive" thread... jeez! I see what you mean!

I wouldn't want to have that vitriol directed at me, and though I'd brush it off, I can see how it would affect some girls/women. You have my genuine sympathy.

I would just like to defend Wind though.. maybe I'm seeing this a bit more dispassionately, but from the posts I've read, she shows a lot of the straight-talking yet compassionate qualities I admire so much in my god-daughter. ( sorry if this embarrasses you Wind!)

You are only making yourself a victim on this board by making replies like this. Please, try to think before posting, because you're posting when angry, and it's not looking good on your part, hence you are 'victimised'.

If you ignore these people, don't acknowledge them, they'll move on.

I was bullied throughout my school life, you're not the only person that's been bullied. I'd say 99% of this forum have been bullied, because we're 'different'.

I still get bullied and trolled online now, it's just what happens, and there's nothing you can do except ignore them. I've been stalked online, called out in random threads when I've not posted for ages and targeted for my mental health, you name it.
If they are bullying you online, report it to the moderators. Don't engage or acknowledge these people publicly.

We live in a sexist society, even after the feminist movement of the 60s and 70s. People have a very strange ideas about what woman are like. The media doesn't help. We aren't all the same we're individuals.,

Guys, and gals... having had a private discussion with OP in the past, I can assure you all that these bullies are people that aren't on this website (to the best of my knowledge, or perhaps they came on this site later on).

And yes, there is some pretty toxic stuff on this forum as well. Not sure where I fit in on that, but I am aware of it.

We have threads in here constantly about how guys think girls have it easier. Then later on, we have another poster criticizing us guys and having others girls join in telling us what guys really mean when we say certain things. Quite frankly, I don't care who started it. It's an ongoing battle between men and women about who said what and who meant what. And where is the humility?

Just face it... people on this website absolutely suck for interpreting the opposite sex. Yet, for some reason, instead of acknowledging that so many men and women out there regardless of a disorder have problems understanding eachother, for some reason we "Aspies" believe we are the only ones with communication and understanding problems.

I agree with you Boo that the difference between man and women is probably more defined that AS-NT. Reason being because most people not diagnosed with an ASD won't care all that much.

So what you are saying is the gray matter relates more to the practical side? White the emotional processing? Is that what you are getting at? That's how I'm interpreting it.

Go and read the content of some of these threads that are posted in this subforum and some of the answers some women are getting from the Aspie men when they come in here wanting good advice. Mind you, we still have some people that want to enable bad behaviour among their bad boyfriends, but the honest ones that come here resent us, and rightfully so.

hugs NinsMom

I don't hate women, I love them. I do get frustrated some times and depressed, then bounce back try again repeat. I don't generally hate anyone, even when mad I try not to say hurtful things cause I worry too much about hurting people. It can lead to it all being keep inside to maybe explode later, but cross that bridge when it comes lol .