Now let me try and give you some advice in the way I feel. I 100% get ur feeling its just insecurity for some of us me include, I try to emphasise as much with others feelings as I can even if its not very good for me but I also have this same issue and it is a big form of emotional self defence mine for instance was most probably caused by bullying in primary school, I was and still can be open to those I know but being open all the time hurt me, however with freinds I don't tend to doubt my feelings unless I do something wrong in thier eye's, however this is why I say to people close to me (which are very few) to appreciate me for me but I'd rather them be honest about thier feelings and I would understand and try maybe to improve on this but at the sametime they know thats hard for me sothey understand my difficulty.
I suggest maybe reassuring him that when when you express your feelings etc that's you being honest and thats not you out right saying that you doubt the relationship, after all dobt expressed to a partner can save relationships by both understanding each others feelings and working in them together. Im not gonna say do this, do what you feel is best but if his anything like me he may feel really insecure in life and hate the thought of losing the person he has deep feelings for that would hurt him if they split, you have to share both your feelings with each other but just reassure him you still live him and also that he dose not have to feel that.
Hope that helps in a way, iv never been in a relationship myself but I do deeply desire one and think about feelings emensly, sorry for any bad grammer/spelling dyslexia is a annoying especially when I love to write stuff like that ^_^
29 Apr 2014, 7:58 pm
