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01 Nov 2007, 12:49 am

MysteryFan3 wrote:
That said, there are a LOT of Aspies who get married and make it work. Love yourself and someone else will follow suit.


And people say narcissism is bad?



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01 Nov 2007, 4:38 am

Heres a though dont try at all and let love find you, that is how i play it and it works like a charm. I just kept being nice and kind to everyone i met and waaalaaa. Just try it and it might work.



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I swear, I think love is out to mess with me b/c Im not normal :/

I tryied many friends advice on where to find girls that are into my things " cyber cafes book stores malls cafes " but no matter how much I try I just feel even worse then befor . I don't think I was made to have love and if that long lasting love... without being hurt or controled like some little pet/child :(

I would give anything for some real help thanks

brad

P.S being single hurts. All I want is somone I can share time with and be in love with :(


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01 Nov 2007, 6:46 am

zombie wrote:
Heres a though dont try at all and let love find you, that is how i play it and it works like a charm. I just kept being nice and kind to everyone i met and waaalaaa. Just try it and it might work.



silveredglasses wrote:
I swear, I think love is out to mess with me b/c Im not normal :/

I tryied many friends advice on where to find girls that are into my things " cyber cafes book stores malls cafes " but no matter how much I try I just feel even worse then befor . I don't think I was made to have love and if that long lasting love... without being hurt or controled like some little pet/child :(

I would give anything for some real help thanks

brad



I tryied leting it find me, but to be honest It don't work 8 years of that and no luck. I'm running out of time. I need to find love befor it's to late for me

P.S being single hurts. All I want is somone I can share time with and be in love with :(



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01 Nov 2007, 11:38 pm

You have to love yourself to be able to love another. Take care of you and the rest will fall into place when fate has meant it to be.



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02 Nov 2007, 12:28 am

fivecents wrote:
You have to love yourself to be able to love another. Take care of you and the rest will fall into place when fate has meant it to be.


Sorry Not going to happen, NOt going to be one of those people that have a idea of of.. " I love me , everyone else is nothing to me mentality" ......... killing this thread doctor pull the plug on this one