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Kilroy
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21 Aug 2008, 11:52 pm

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nice being happy for people there



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21 Aug 2008, 11:55 pm

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nice being happy for people there


Online relationships I don't believe in.


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22 Aug 2008, 12:01 am

well who cares what you believe in
this guy got somewhere, and they're close-if you got nothing nice to say
f**k off!
because no one gives a flying f**k what negative crap you believe in, when they are happy they finally found someone
I am in an online relationship too, as are many others
and they don't need people like you, being a jerk about it



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22 Aug 2008, 12:49 am

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In many of our conversations, we fantasize about what our life together would be like, and even about our children (We even have names picked out!) :P
That's incredibly creepy.



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22 Aug 2008, 1:34 am

Praetorius wrote:
Soopervilin wrote:
In many of our conversations, we fantasize about what our life together would be like, and even about our children (We even have names picked out!) :P
That's incredibly creepy.


Okay........I think the line of creepiness was crossed a while ago.


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22 Aug 2008, 1:58 am

You can have online relationships as much as you like, I don't care.
But note that in an online relationship you fall in love with the 'idea' of the person you developed in your mind and not with the real person. You love your version of this person and not the real one.



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22 Aug 2008, 2:12 am

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You can have online relationships as much as you like, I don't care.
But note that in an online relationship you fall in love with the 'idea' of the person you developed in your mind and not with the real person. You love your version of this person and not the real one.


You have a point there. However there have been online relationships that really hit it off. For example this World of Warcraft couple got together in real life and now they're married. Anyway, I hope it works out for ya. :)



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22 Aug 2008, 6:01 am

Obviously this online thing is a very premature thing, but it is giving the topic starter a good feeling and new hope. So that alone is a wonderful thing.

And once they meet up in real, I hope for him that she turns out to be as nice as she appears online. I wish him all the best and prefer to abstain from scepticism. Let the guy have his dreams and his good feeling, and let's hope it will work out well once they are meeting in real.

COme on people, we got our issues, let's be supportive of each other rather than being sceptic.


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22 Aug 2008, 6:18 am

Kilroy wrote:
well who cares what you believe in
this guy got somewhere, and they're close-if you got nothing nice to say
f**k off!
because no one gives a flying f**k what negative crap you believe in, when they are happy they finally found someone
I am in an online relationship too, as are many others
and they don't need people like you, being a jerk about it


Kilroy, have I mentioned lately that I think you're awesome? (and yes, that was sincere.)


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22 Aug 2008, 6:42 am

LePetitPrince wrote:
You can have online relationships as much as you like, I don't care.
But note that in an online relationship you fall in love with the 'idea' of the person you developed in your mind and not with the real person. You love your version of this person and not the real one.


We're keeping in mind that neither of us has a complete understanding of the other, and trying to avoid the "L" word until we meet in person.

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Kilroy, have I mentioned lately that I think you're awesome? (and yes, that was sincere.)


Seconded.

And crackedpleasures, I couldn't have stated it better myself. Our relationship is indeed very premature, and the future we fantasize about together wouldn't begin for at least another three to five years, if it happens at all. That I have found someone out there with whom I want to be, who also wants to be with me is a completely new, exciting and mind-blowing experience for me that I just felt I had to share with my fellow aspies. If it can happen to me, there's hope out there for anyone. :D



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22 Aug 2008, 10:13 am

Who_Am_I wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
well who cares what you believe in
this guy got somewhere, and they're close-if you got nothing nice to say
f**k off!
because no one gives a flying f**k what negative crap you believe in, when they are happy they finally found someone
I am in an online relationship too, as are many others
and they don't need people like you, being a jerk about it


Kilroy, have I mentioned lately that I think you're awesome? (and yes, that was sincere.)


thank you :)
these people-have nothing better to do then to trash someone else's happiness
for christ sakes-what the f**k is wrong with you people
you got nothing better to do then be ass holes to anyone who isn't as miserable as you are? :roll:
is this forum souly based on sadness that no one can ever be happy for once?
f*****s



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22 Aug 2008, 10:24 am

I'm glad you're having fun!



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22 Aug 2008, 12:10 pm

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And crackedpleasures, I couldn't have stated it better myself. Our relationship is indeed very premature, and the future we fantasize about together wouldn't begin for at least another three to five years, if it happens at all. That I have found someone out there with whom I want to be, who also wants to be with me is a completely new, exciting and mind-blowing experience for me that I just felt I had to share with my fellow aspies. If it can happen to me, there's hope out there for anyone. :D


I am a good councellor when it comes to romance hey? :D And somehow I never end up lucky with the ladies myself. Odd.

Anyway, not sure how old you are, but the distance between you two isn't that big and you clearly both want it to happen. Well, MAKE IT HAPPEN. No need to wait for years, she clearly wants to meet you as well so why not just set a date? With a bit of luck she is as nice in real as she appears now on the phone, and then you are really living the dream. Go for it ! !


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22 Aug 2008, 2:07 pm

Praetorius wrote:
Soopervilin wrote:
In many of our conversations, we fantasize about what our life together would be like, and even about our children (We even have names picked out!) :P
That's incredibly creepy.


Speak for yourself, I see it as both of them being incredibly forward-thinking... something this world desprately needs IMO...


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these people-have nothing better to do then to trash someone else's happiness
for christ sakes-what the f**k is wrong with you people
you got nothing better to do then be ass holes to anyone who isn't as miserable as you are? :roll:
is this forum souly based on sadness that no one can ever be happy for once?

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22 Aug 2008, 2:23 pm

a sad part of this site, is how many bitter people there are
they're all over, and they seem to think its their right to chew these people out
because "they had a hard life"
that's no damn excuse to be a total prick to people-who did nothing to anyone!

the good die young
but pricks live forever!



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22 Aug 2008, 2:44 pm

Soopervilin wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
You can have online relationships as much as you like, I don't care.
But note that in an online relationship you fall in love with the 'idea' of the person you developed in your mind and not with the real person. You love your version of this person and not the real one.


We're keeping in mind that neither of us has a complete understanding of the other, and trying to avoid the "L" word until we meet in person.


Then you are on the right track , don't hope much before meeting her for real.