How Much Experience Do You Have with the Opposite Sex?

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2 fake relationships

0 real.

Hmm, let's see. I've only really dated one girl, for about six months. That ended about 6 and a half years ago. I've kissed...six I think, and actually slept with three of those six, and with only two of those six more than once (my current FWB.) Oddly the one I dated is NOT one of the ones I slept with, though we fooled around (only for her benefit...)

I had a conservation with a girl once.......

Well I'll tell you something, I am not only the Autistic Malcontent, I am the Romantic Malcontent as well. Why, because about 13 or 14 girls throughout elementary/middle/high school have rejected me asking them out. I don't blame most of them looking back because I didn't know them that well and I was desperate, but still, I'm a nice and charming guy. I've been single 21 years straight (I am 21 by the way), and personally I think love is little more than a mocking reminder of how nice guys like you and me have been screwed over royally.

I think a lot of women at our age (20-25 years old) are superficial and vain, but guys are as well. The fact of the matter is that we all seek perfection where there is none. Guys want bigged breasted well figured girls and girls want charismatic, dashing Prince Charming types. The truth about love is that it is compromise, you have to give and take. I do the same things you do, I look at profiles on social networking places to see what friends I can make and to think of possibilites. I don't plan to date girls off social networking sites, but I try to widen my connections.

I don't think bars and nightclubs are ideal for finding companions, that's like drawing a number out of a hat. Your best bet is to find girls in hobbies/things you like to do. If no luck there, try to make friends with your friends' friends that are girls. If not that, try a dating service online. Good luck mate

As a child I was most familiar and sympathetic with the "I hate girls" crowd. I had difficulty relating to or speaking with the opposite sex, so I would rather have avoided them altogether. Of course I changed my attitude somewhat with maturity and my attraction to the opposite sex, at around fourteen and a half. I had tried talking to a few girls who I found interesting (and not necessarily attractive) but my peers saw me as desperate for a date which often sullied the potential friendship. The only decent female friend I had was a sort of misfit character who a year later grew more distant from me as she stopped going to classes. By the end of secondary school I had come to get along with all of the guys, but this was not the case with the girls. Now in college I have a few female "facebook friends". People who know me through college, but I would stop short of calling them really good friends.

As far as romantic interest goes... The first two girls I fancied each told me to stop staring at them. There were a couple of girls in secondary school who I caught word liked me but I upset through my ignorance of their public displays of affection. They were both pretty attractive and I could conceivably have dated them but I guess I didn't know enough as a teenager. A couple more who I was friends with but rejected my advances. A couple more who I might have had a chance with, but blew it. And one who I thought I had managed to ask out on a date but she still had her boyfriend and misread my intentions. Virtually nothing has happened on that front in the three years since I left secondary school and entered college.

I didnt have a whole lot of experinace with guys until college. I only had one guy friend in highschool and some acquintances. I didnt make friends that easily in general. Now in college, Im friends with a couple of gay guys and a couple of straight guys. I have a boyfriend right now whos aspie. I've also had some very strange conversations with a few aspie guys online. My guess is its probably easier for aspie girls with communicate with the opposite sex then aspie guys communicating with the opposite sex.

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Thats a little rude man

Most friends were female until the past 5 years or so... have had a number of relationships lasting over a year, and fortunate to have had a good number of wonderful partners over the years.


M.

I have had one "internet relationship".

I have had a few rl female friends and quite a few conversations with them and other females. I have actually had much more experience with friends of the opposite sex than with same sex friends.

I have been on one date in real life, not counting outings with female friends of which I have been on quite a few with me being the only guy.

I am not "technically" a virgin, I am one completely and in whole. My "internet girlfriend" did however send me naked pictures of her lovely 34 Bs. Can't be completely sure that she was the girl in the pictures but she did have a sweet voice.

I've had a date to a school dance with a girl when I was in high school, and at a party, this one hot drunk chick literally asked me if I wanted to feel her up, so I did that (Hey, we all make mistakes). Apart from that, I'm 19 and Iv'e never even kissed a girl, but I think I'll find someone eventually. Apart from that......does cybersex count?

Asked out 6 or 7 girls in high school, was rejected by all of them. Haven't asked out any others since then. I've also never kissed a girl, and I'm a virgin.

lots....but i want more

*i have some kind of "i'm not worthy" complex*

Sexual intimacy is easy to obtain.

Sustaining an emotionally and intellectually satisfying relationship for both parties is well-nigh impossible.