LePetitPrince wrote:
You people are so sensitive about generalizations ,aren't you? You should take it easy , not all generalizations are that wrong.
Spokane is talking about men in general , and yes she's totally right ....gender roles impose on men to not freely show their emotions especially if they are negative emotions like crying and sadness. When men are sad, they usually don't vent openly to their peers like women do, this may vary from one man to man but in general they don't vent , men usually are so paranoid to be seen as sissies or weak or non-confident if they start complaining or whining around others. ....and I am not talking just about the typical macho men.
men suicide more often for that reason...
Spokane, why it's so important to you to know how he's feeling?
I guess the only know way to how he's feeling is to observe his patterns , like how he usually behaves when something upset him ...etc. Or you can try lotus' way.
she said all men, i dont care a flying rats rear what others think about me. I dont think about them