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ZEGH8578
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17 Mar 2009, 4:27 pm

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My testosterone level is getting to high to the extent that I am head-banging the wall.....


mine is so high that i shave my forehead, while beating up weaklings and cowards >:0


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17 Mar 2009, 4:27 pm

^ Oh.. is that a testosterone thing? I did that a lot while growing up just for fun...... :lol:



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17 Mar 2009, 4:33 pm

ZEGH8578 wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
My testosterone level is getting to high to the extent that I am head-banging the wall.....


mine is so high that i shave my forehead, while beating up weaklings and cowards >:0


wow :lol: thats the most brutal thing i`ve heard in a while



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17 Mar 2009, 4:33 pm

now my wall is growing hair for some reason.....



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17 Mar 2009, 4:40 pm

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orbs, just go:

:oops: GOSH thanx <3

Act like a girl for once!! ! >:I


Oh, and I suppose you want me to dress up in skimpy girl clothes that look they're made for six year olds, too, now. :D

Besides, if I start acting girly on here now, there's no turning it around. It's bad enough I act like a woman judge, the minute I get truly effeminate, it's all over. But just so I can compromise this time, I'll reword what I said as, "I don't know how to take compliments? <3 <3 XOXOXO =^_^=". YOU PLEASED NOW?

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Thank you! :) I tend to discover my grammatical/linguistical errors after I post. Sometimes even days after. But I've stopped going back to correct them, and if the errors are changing the meaning of the post, I usually supplement with a new one. Hmm, sometimes I even say stuff that I disagree with a few days later... :roll:

I didn't think you were worried about getting hit on, considering you already have a boyfriend. I just wanted you to know that that wasn't my intention in any case.

Yeah, I've noticed there is a lot of testosterone going on here, but learning to control it is part of what this board is about. Because deciphering social cues gets so confusing for a person on the autistic spectrum, our self esteem seems to generally be at a lower point than in neuro typical people. We need to learn (and teach each other) how to behave amongst other people and testosterone is a major ego factor that needs that kind of attention.


Well, I believe there's no better way to learn than my trial and error. As to your second post, that sounds about right. It's nice to have a balance between the dominance seeking testosterone likes to boost and trying to deeply discuss autistic relationship issues.

ZEGH8578 wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
My testosterone level is getting to high to the extent that I am head-banging the wall.....


mine is so high that i shave my forehead, while beating up weaklings and cowards >:0


I can vouch for the authenticty of this quote!

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now my wall is growing hair for some reason.....


And that is f*****g surreal. Wow.



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17 Mar 2009, 4:41 pm

ImTheGuyThatDidThat wrote:
ZEGH8578 wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
My testosterone level is getting to high to the extent that I am head-banging the wall.....


mine is so high that i shave my forehead, while beating up weaklings and cowards >:0


wow :lol: thats the most brutal thing i`ve heard in a while


aha?
youll be the first one i send my book, when its finished then ;)

keeping on the masculine-as-hell topic, orbyss! contribute! contribute!
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*HIDES*

BTW/PS: orbs, your staying offline you rascal. but yes, i decided to ease their TENSION (you know who's tension im talking about) by having them go at it, just to get it out of the way, and most importantly, to get RID of that "build up for something" BS feeling. de-romanticize it all, screw it! :D


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17 Mar 2009, 5:08 pm

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keeping on the masculine-as-hell topic, orbyss! contribute! contribute!
:oops:
*HIDES*

BTW/PS: orbs, your staying offline you rascal. but yes, i decided to ease their TENSION (you know who's tension im talking about) by having them go at it, just to get it out of the way, and most importantly, to get RID of that "build up for something" BS feeling. de-romanticize it all, screw it! :D


Uh...contribute with my own hairy faced masculinity, or with more feminism? I can switch at any given second, just give me the command. But if it's the former, I don't think this forum's ready for me to unleash myself, not even on the 'adult' section.

As for your story, I can tell it's spring! You'll regret it come fall, trust me. Also, I'd read this is you weren't so lazy and translated it all into English for me. :D How'm I supposed to be able to enjoy it, HUH?



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17 Mar 2009, 5:17 pm

Orbyss wrote:
ZEGH8578 wrote:
keeping on the masculine-as-hell topic, orbyss! contribute! contribute!
:oops:
*HIDES*

BTW/PS: orbs, your staying offline you rascal. but yes, i decided to ease their TENSION (you know who's tension im talking about) by having them go at it, just to get it out of the way, and most importantly, to get RID of that "build up for something" BS feeling. de-romanticize it all, screw it! :D


Uh...contribute with my own hairy faced masculinity, or with more feminism? I can switch at any given second, just give me the command. But if it's the former, I don't think this forum's ready for me to unleash myself, not even on the 'adult' section.

As for your story, I can tell it's spring! You'll regret it come fall, trust me. Also, I'd read this is you weren't so lazy and translated it all into English for me. :D How'm I supposed to be able to enjoy it, HUH?


you've bragged about being able to read norwegian, så kjeften på deg, du får lese den på norsk!
and yes, it could be spring, but as i said: NOT ROMANTIC. i am doing it to cut the whole "build up" feeling that is inevitable sneaking along. its man/woman for a long time, and the reader will expect s**t, and i am NOT EVER gonna squeeze some smooching into the end or something sh***y like that. so i figure, by having them jump the hay, just for fun, it would be over with. tension is gone. i can relax.
i even thought of this interplanetary flirt "hey, you think our sexual organs are compatible?"


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17 Mar 2009, 8:42 pm

ZEGH8578 wrote:
Orbyss wrote:
ZEGH8578 wrote:
keeping on the masculine-as-hell topic, orbyss! contribute! contribute!
:oops:
*HIDES*

BTW/PS: orbs, your staying offline you rascal. but yes, i decided to ease their TENSION (you know who's tension im talking about) by having them go at it, just to get it out of the way, and most importantly, to get RID of that "build up for something" BS feeling. de-romanticize it all, screw it! :D


Uh...contribute with my own hairy faced masculinity, or with more feminism? I can switch at any given second, just give me the command. But if it's the former, I don't think this forum's ready for me to unleash myself, not even on the 'adult' section.

As for your story, I can tell it's spring! You'll regret it come fall, trust me. Also, I'd read this is you weren't so lazy and translated it all into English for me. :D How'm I supposed to be able to enjoy it, HUH?


you've bragged about being able to read norwegian, så kjeften på deg, du får lese den på norsk!
and yes, it could be spring, but as i said: NOT ROMANTIC. i am doing it to cut the whole "build up" feeling that is inevitable sneaking along. its man/woman for a long time, and the reader will expect sh**, and i am NOT EVER gonna squeeze some smooching into the end or something sh***y like that. so i figure, by having them jump the hay, just for fun, it would be over with. tension is gone. i can relax.
i even thought of this interplanetary flirt "hey, you think our sexual organs are compatible?"


I never bragged! I can read a few languages, can't speak any for s**t other than my own. But I can get the simple stuff.

Did you say I'm a big mouth because I said I studied Norwegian? :(

And no one said Spring had to be romantic. :D



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17 Mar 2009, 9:08 pm

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I never bragged! I can read a few languages, can't speak any for sh** other than my own. But I can get the simple stuff.

Did you say I'm a big mouth because I said I studied Norwegian? :(

And no one said Spring had to be romantic. :D


the deal is this simple: a man and a woman is basically "the last ones on earth", there are others people, but very few, so... it would be STUPID of me, the author, to keep insisting that everything is - and will always be - platonic. especially since they will both be hanging around for (litterally) eternities to come.
they simply have to get it out of the way, i dont want it to be romantic, i dont even want them to perform well. for all i care, the captain has his moment too early (details, if any, would only be added as a retrospect footnote.). i just need to keep the realism, and not sway away from it. i dont wanna fall into stupid realism traps caused by moralism issues. my characters poop, piss and vomit, they gotta do-that-thang too, at SOME point! romance, on the other hand, would simply be unrealistic in that setting, and so i will avoid it. its almost exclusively to give ME some peace of mind :D


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18 Mar 2009, 4:34 pm

so we're back to the best piece of advice, ever

JUST BE YOURSELF

:lol: :lol: :lmao:


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18 Mar 2009, 6:38 pm

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so we're back to the best piece of advice, ever

JUST BE YOURSELF

:lol: :lol: :lmao:


in MY experience: worst advice ever :oops:


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18 Mar 2009, 6:44 pm

I used to follow that "Just be yourself" bullroar; but every time I did, someone would always tell me that I was just impersonating someone else.

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19 Mar 2009, 2:24 am

Fnord wrote:
An interesting article from the folks at "Oprah.com" gives three suggestions on how to be more attractive to potential soul mates.

While the article is intended for women, the suggestions seems to make sense for both genders. Here's a quick summary:

1. Know Yourself. Explore your own nature. Write down your interests, dislikes, attractive qualities, and aspects of your "dark side." Employ the help of intelligent, yet critical, people who know you well.

2. Value Yourself. You deserve better than what you would otherwise settle for. Be picky. Set high standards and stick to them.

3. Engage Yourself. Be busy and you'll be interesting. Get involved in activities that are not what everybody else does. Stand out from the crowd.

--> LINK TO ARTICLE <--


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19 Mar 2009, 2:53 am

excellent information often comes in strange guises.
i have learned to take advice and info from any source, so long as the info is good.



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20 Mar 2009, 1:49 am

Fnord wrote:
An interesting article from the folks at "Oprah.com" gives three suggestions on how to be more attractive to potential soul mates.

While the article is intended for women, the suggestions seems to make sense for both genders. Here's a quick summary:

1. Know Yourself. Explore your own nature. Write down your interests, dislikes, attractive qualities, and aspects of your "dark side." Employ the help of intelligent, yet critical, people who know you well.

2. Value Yourself. You deserve better than what you would otherwise settle for. Be picky. Set high standards and stick to them.

3. Engage Yourself. Be busy and you'll be interesting. Get involved in activities that are not what everybody else does. Stand out from the crowd.

--> LINK TO ARTICLE <--

It's just another variation of getting your life in order, and having relationships fall in line as a result. I've heard this advice everywhere, it's just that most people don't take it to heart until years of miserable loneliness finally triggers a light switch.