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12 Dec 2010, 12:12 am

I think instead of a label and relationships we should focus on the basics of relationships. I am honestly just not in tune with the emotions of another's mind other then how my emotions work and basic generalities of sadness and happy. So maybe we can educate eachother on common emotions in a relationship with focuses on female and male emotions. There is no need for the label.



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12 Dec 2010, 9:05 am

ci wrote:
I think instead of a label and relationships we should focus on the basics of relationships. I am honestly just not in tune with the emotions of another's mind other then how my emotions work and basic generalities of sadness and happy. So maybe we can educate eachother on common emotions in a relationship with focuses on female and male emotions. There is no need for the label.


Fair enough, that sounds reasonable.



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12 Dec 2010, 10:06 am

As an experiment, I tried lying on the floor in order to impress this hot girl I know, and she didn't seem very attracted.


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12 Dec 2010, 10:08 am

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As an experiment, I tried lying on the floor in order to impress this hot girl I know, and she didn't seem very attracted.


Did you try clutching your chest? Maybe you could get mouth-to-mouth... :wink:



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12 Dec 2010, 10:10 am

Grisha wrote:
Moog wrote:
As an experiment, I tried lying on the floor in order to impress this hot girl I know, and she didn't seem very attracted.


Did you try clutching your chest? Maybe you could get mouth-to-mouth... :wink:


You're good! 8)


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13 Dec 2010, 12:07 am

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Enough about this nonsense. What about HopeGrows' idea about starting a sticky thread talking about listing positive advice and information about how AS affects ourselves as individuals in relationships?

Good night guys.


@Jono, do you want to talk to a mod or Alex? Do you want me to? It would be nice to have a thread that could serve as a resource for actual information, and that has some real life anecdotes that address the things people do to make their relationships work. It might actually help people who are looking for solid information, rather than just opinion and conjecture.


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13 Dec 2010, 2:46 pm

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Jono wrote:
Enough about this nonsense. What about HopeGrows' idea about starting a sticky thread talking about listing positive advice and information about how AS affects ourselves as individuals in relationships?

Good night guys.


@Jono, do you want to talk to a mod or Alex? Do you want me to? It would be nice to have a thread that could serve as a resource for actual information, and that has some real life anecdotes that address the things people do to make their relationships work. It might actually help people who are looking for solid information, rather than just opinion and conjecture.


I think it would be best to contact Alex if we want to sticky the thread. Although a mod is able to sticky threads, the fact that Quatermass' rule reminder thread was unstickied by Alex, it seems like he doesn't want to clutter up the forum with too many stickies. Since it was your idea, I think you would be best to explain to him what the idea is, and let's see what he says.