Booyakasha wrote:
I prefer warts in a sense that I like to talk to a real person, not some image they'd project. That's so shallow and boring. Real people are much more interesting than any kind of persona they might invent in order to get accepted. I love it when they share things with me, i don't like those who act like theatre actors.
Women liked to bully me as well, much more than men, sorry you had to go through that as well. They'd threaten to hit me, and since I'm very tiny it usually did the trick.
ah. just a odd way to describe it. I agree mostly
yeah at least with men it was they never played with my romantic feelings women on the other had would pretend to like like me just to set me up for a trap. I never trusted women again, which might have lead to me missing out on actually interest in me, but 50/50 it was just to hurt me. I'll never know.
Booyakasha wrote:
I love being his "sister"

Especially since I have no siblings. Some other people have said similar things to me and I can only feel grateful that they think of me like that.
Not sure why would that be creepy?

i'm sorry they cut you off, women move in mysterious ways. That one who cut off my friend also called me "sister" until I somehow managed to piss her off....so she cut me off as well but then changed her mind...then she changed her mind one more time and wanted to talk to me again, but I said, no thanks.
My friend is a lot of things, but would never toss and turn me like that, no man has ever been so whimsical to me like some women. They would talk to me for a while, and then cut me off without explanation, just like you say they did to you.
I think if I were a man, I'd be in a similar position as you are now - clueless and at their mercy.
As for why I'm afraid to help him - well, I tried to help him on OK cupid, but after countless rejections he became so despondent and miserable that it was almost impossible to talk to him. Then I introduced him to that girl I mentioned, and it ended up with even greater depression since she just cut him off one day. I fear it will happen again - he isn't snobbish enough for them. He doesn't care for titles, money or status, he just wants someone to care for him, but it seems it wasn't meant to be. I fear if I try to help some more it might bring even worse disaster and he might become suicidal. It's his life, I think from now on I'll keep away lest I do more damage.
well one was I have abandonment issues. I guess. that and I felt I was a burden so I de followed her on tumblr and facebook twice. I would get down and feel it better for her I do so. now I just hide people and don't delete them ever in fear.
ah thats a tough one I suppose.