18 May 2015, 5:01 am
18 May 2015, 5:09 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
sly279 wrote:
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No, my experiment indicates that only whites like whites.
I get a lot of matches with blacks and Asians.
intersint as a lot of white women prefer black/dark skinned men in america.
theres also alot of mixed race couples.
your experiment is like what 200 women out of millions. its as invalid as the anti gun polls.
if anything it might be relevant for whatever area in the nations you chose if they have a small population.
200 is a good representative sample, also Kenya is not the only black-dominated country I've tried, and I always get hundred of matches there.
It's only in the white-dominated countries were I get zeros.
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hard to tell she might be all skin and bones under the dress. which would be unhealthy.
Look at the thigh, you see the meat? there you can tell if she's unhealthy skinny or not.
Don't look at the ankle's bone, because this is an innate bone frame type, some have it small while others have it thin. East Africans like Ethiopians, Kenyans, Sudanese... tend to have thin bone frame.
The pics I showed to trollcat in pm are similar to her.
I strongly disagree. so by that logic. I can go ask 2 people in my city and cal them a good sample size . sorry 50% or more would be a ok sample size. 75% would be good, 90% would be ideal.
for USA 200 people out of 320 million is .00000063 of the population. hardly representative. especially considering the 200 is from what a 50 mile radis what if that area is more racist then other areas, now you label americans as racist based off of .00000063% polled in a racist area.
I polled 50 people now I know what the whole world is like
then ad that tinder is hardly a well based representative of a population.
the anti gunners do this they poll 500 people in chicago and say 90% of americans hate guns.
well you polled 500 people of 320 million in a anti gun city, so yeah I'd say that most people in that city hate guns. but reality is open polls of much larger numbers show the opposite. I hate polls for this reason they are so biased from the start then rigged to get a the wanted result.
does this mean most middle east people are anti american terrorist. I saw polls that said they were
was with a girl who had thigh meat as you called it but her stomach was super bones poking out and uncomfortable.
you can get thighs from running and still be unhealthy thin in other areas.
18 May 2015, 5:12 am
18 May 2015, 5:13 am
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I'm kinda starving myself now. I 'm eating less calories then I should to lose weight. I've reached my goal but I don't think I'll stop. maybe i should decrease it more even. downside is I'm hungry alot and I can generally only eat two meals a day now.
It is never good to starve oneself, you should take care of your body you are young and you have a long life in front of you. If you want to lose a little weight for your health then that is something else, but saying that you are starving yourself is very dangerous. You do so much damage to your body, you can get heart problems, intestinal problems as a result from starvation. Please take care of yourself, you are a nice person, I can see that by how you write about your love for foxes and your respect for all living creatures for instance
If you really need to lose weight than do it slowly and make sure your body will get everything that it needs.
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men don't report rape as society says. 1. men can't be raped, ever unless in the butt, 2. men are suppose to be emotionless and confidence. so we aren't suppose to talk about such things. 3. if you do men and women will tease you for being weak. just like how there's less crime in gang areas because people are too afraid to report it.
I think that is horrible. All crimes against all poeple should be seen as just as wrong.
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also not doing a who has it worse but a both have it bad. in fact if you say someone pointing out how men have problems too as them saying that men have it worse then you're just thinking the same thing but that women have it worse. so it sounds like by saying men get hurt means women getting hurt means less, but anyone getting hurt is bad and equal. I don't get why one has to be more worse then the other.
I'm sorry but I'm not certain that I undesrtand your point. I think all problems should be seen as equal, but it is not always treated that way. In certain areas all the information is about men and vice versa.
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18 May 2015, 5:33 am
18 May 2015, 5:40 am
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sly279 wrote:
I'm kinda starving myself now. I 'm eating less calories then I should to lose weight. I've reached my goal but I don't think I'll stop. maybe i should decrease it more even. downside is I'm hungry alot and I can generally only eat two meals a day now.
It is never good to starve oneself, you should take care of your body you are young and you have a long life in front of you. If you want to lose a little weight for your health then that is something else, but saying that you are starving yourself is very dangerous. You do so much damage to your body, you can get heart problems, intestinal problems as a result from starvation. Please take care of yourself, you are a nice person, I can see that by how you write about your love for foxes and your respect for all living creatures for instance
If you really need to lose weight than do it slowly and make sure your body will get everything that it needs.
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men don't report rape as society says. 1. men can't be raped, ever unless in the butt, 2. men are suppose to be emotionless and confidence. so we aren't suppose to talk about such things. 3. if you do men and women will tease you for being weak. just like how there's less crime in gang areas because people are too afraid to report it.
I think that is horrible. All crimes against all poeple should be seen as just as wrong.
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also not doing a who has it worse but a both have it bad. in fact if you say someone pointing out how men have problems too as them saying that men have it worse then you're just thinking the same thing but that women have it worse. so it sounds like by saying men get hurt means women getting hurt means less, but anyone getting hurt is bad and equal. I don't get why one has to be more worse then the other.
I'm sorry but I'm not certain that I understand your point. I think all problems should be seen as equal, but it is not always treated that way. In certain areas all the information is about men and vice versa.
perhaps. idk only way to lose weight is to reduce calories below what is need to sustain your weight. I want to be liked. so I guess I have to starve. though its not starving truly because I am eating but I'm not eating enough are there different levels of starving? been having more heart burn. I have it set up to lose about 1.5 pounds a week. I down to 250 from 280ish. suppose I'll keep going til I'm just bones. then maybe I'll be attractive somewhat.
ah. cool
I wasn't sure if you were like those other people who seem to think acknowledging someone else's problems belittles theirs.
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18 May 2015, 5:42 am
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I think that it is a bit insane that this girl is considered plus size...
This one is considered plus sized in the fashion industry which is dominated by gays and women. As I said, fashion requirements don't reflect straight men's opinions.
Compare her to 'glamour models' (google them), an industry which is way more focused on what straight men find attractive, and you'll see she's not considered plus sized at all.
18 May 2015, 5:50 am
18 May 2015, 5:51 am
18 May 2015, 5:54 am
sly279 wrote:
perhaps. idk only way to lose weight is to reduce calories below what is need to sustain your weight. I want to be liked. so I guess I have to starve. though its not starving truly because I am eating but I'm not eating enough are there different levels of starving? been having more heart burn. I have it set up to lose about 1.5 pounds a week. I down to 250 from 280ish. suppose I'll keep going til I'm just bones. then maybe I'll be attractive somewhat.
It is difficult, I started with thinking I will eat this much let's say 1000 kcal per day, and I lost weight quickly in the begining, then it started to slow down so I put it on 800 kcal a day, then 500 kcal a day and then skipping food on some days. When you starve yourself for a longer time after a while then you will start craving because you are lacking nutrition. So you over eat one day and then you have to use laxatives or starve yourself for a few days... It's a never ending evil downwards spiral.
You should eat healthy thing, avoid artificial crap, avoid the stuff that are not good for you, try to get a healthy body, it is much better than an skinny one that comes from starving yourself. Also angsiety and depression will follow when you starve yourself. You are not just starving your ody but also your brain, and it will worsen your mental health a lot.
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ah. cool
I wasn't sure if you were like those other people who seem to think acknowledging someone else's problems belittles theirs.
I wasn't sure if you were like those other people who seem to think acknowledging someone else's problems belittles theirs.
My words sometimes come across differently then I intend to, I forget to say certain things and so on, also writting in a different language than your own is not always helpful.
18 May 2015, 5:56 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Let's ask the ladies, what do you think? is this woman in previous page unhealthily skinny?
Its hard to tell, because the dress is loose fitting, she is skinny, but she seems to have athletic legs instead of bony legs.
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fashion requirements don't reflect straight men's opinions.
I agree, and its not the first time that Ive heard this either.Quote:
Compare her to 'glamour models' (google them), an industry which is way more focused on what straight men find attractive
This standard still creates unrealistically high social pressures on girls, and still emphasizes an unnatural image, plus why are glamour models attractive? For their personalities 
or their stereotypical industry standard physical attributes...
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18 May 2015, 6:08 am
18 May 2015, 6:13 am
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Anyone find healthy and fit attractive? I do, thats the ideal image standard for me, not buff and abnormal, just a healthy look. Bodies shaped by regular activity with a little bit of body fat to make a cuddle a softer experience, physiques that are somewhere in the middle of the extremes, regular I suppose.
problem is people can't agree on what is healthy and fit. to most now boney and super thin is healthy and fit. others might think it's six pack with tons of muscles. whats abnormal?
what's little bit of body fat?
I honestly not sure what you mean. not trying to be rude or mean. though I suspect I don't met it whatever it is.
Ah ok, I mean regular everyday people, eg. that eat right and work out three times a week. My personal definition of normal is what I find attractive, not what an industry dictates. A body that is in physical use, being moved and exercised as was intended by our design.
A little bit of body fat: within the healthy range for the individuals size and shape, maybe its just me, but I like a little bit of fat on men that I'm physically close with, it makes a cuddle a more comfortable experience.
Abnormal to me is this weight lifting look, uber defined muscles, to me a muscle should be noticeable when it is being flexed/or when they become visible from practical use.
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18 May 2015, 6:36 am
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Let's ask the ladies, what do you think? is this woman in previous page unhealthily skinny?
Its hard to tell, because the dress is loose fitting, she is skinny, but she seems to have athletic legs instead of bony legs.
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fashion requirements don't reflect straight men's opinions.
I agree, and its not the first time that Ive heard this either.Quote:
Compare her to 'glamour models' (google them), an industry which is way more focused on what straight men find attractive
This standard still creates unrealistically high social pressures on girls, and still emphasizes an unnatural image, plus why are glamour models attractive? For their personalities or their stereotypical industry standard physical attributes...Same for the male ideal beauty in media.
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This standard still creates unrealistically high social pressures on girls, and still emphasizes an unnatural image, plus why are glamour models attractive? For their personalities or their stereotypical industry standard physical attributes..
or their stereotypical industry standard physical attributes..Yes, it does, but I bet the voluntary vomiting and self starvation come way more from the fashion industry than the glamour industry; I swear I have seen like those glamour models starving themselves to become extremely skinnier like in the fashion industry.
Plastic surgery comes more from the glamour industry I believe though but we are talking about weight and self starvation issue.
Women are way more exposed to fashion than to the other.
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18 May 2015, 6:53 am
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Some of us are simply naturally skinny, doesn't mean we starve ourselves or have body image issues or media sheep.
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