Is the Red Pill Really So Bad?

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15 Dec 2018, 5:17 am

I'm a social butterfly who can't spread his wings due to crippling depression and social anxiety. I don't even need a girlfriend that desperately, it just makes my heart throb when sweat women smile with me.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:20 am

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You're forgetting I had a look at the job boards in Oregon and there are loads of jobs to apply for. You wouldnt work in lumber anyway so why quote the decreasing jobs available in trades you won't do?

Women did adapt. They got jobs.

Bus drivers and shop workers and cleaners have wives.

Ok, you've actually hit the nail in the head. The elephant in the room. The problem for some guys here is that they are not intelligent. They look weird. They don't even know how to dress normally or get a good haircut, how can they manage to deal with a household budget? Is the impression they give.

An intelligent woman wants someone on her wavelength. Someone she can talk to who can respond on her level. Its not satisfying to be carrying the burden for someone emotionally and intellectually. Even a woman of average intelligence wants a man of average intelligence, not below average.

I've said this before and I'll say it again. I don't want to be someone's carer. I can get by on my own. I don't want to carry someone when I've got a good life on my own. So do most other women. We don't need someone to provide for us, so we are better off choosing a partner who is our intellectual equal.

I'd consider a guy who can't work full time due to a physical disability, but not a mental one. I need intellectual stimulation. I already have a mother with mental health issues to deal with. I don't need a husband who can't look after himself.

Even the shallow women want an intelligent man, I mean of average intelligence. Below average partner intelligence wise means you have to run round after them like a Mom. Work is an indicator of intelligence. Its not always about the money.

Are you equating intelligence level to the ability of holding a job?
Because someone who works as a cleaner his whole life for instance is unlikely to be smart.

IQ is something mostly inborn, that’s why brilliant students were often brilliant since first day of school, It is mostly genetic.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:23 am

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Sigh. I wish dating sites hadn't been invented. Its just so much shallowness.

People choose from lists and photos and don't actually get to know the real people behind that.

We can't evaluate ourselves based on dating sites. Its not good for the self esteem.

We are all more than lists of traits and demands on a dating site profile of an attractive looking match.

They just took what people do in real life and streamlined it’d. Women have rejected me in person for the same reasons

They took what people do and want and streamlined it as a product people want and it sells great. They make millions off it.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:23 am

Sly. I'm sorry I upset you.

I don't know why being a b***h today.

I don't really believe tough love works. Put it down to frustration. I'm only human.

And I am sorry... and to anyone else who feel hurt by my words today.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:28 am

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I don’t like fighting with you. You’re one of my few efriends.
You did hurt me. But I’ll acdepr your apology if it’s sincere.

I m sorry to hear abiut yiur troubles today.

Hugs?

I wouldn’t call you the b world
I’m sorry if I upset you at all I just feel very upset about this subject
Most people don’t get thst I’m trying my best but still failing. I get judged at work every day. I’m told don’t yiu want to have a family sly,
Why don’t yiu go get s real job sly
Like I don’t alresdy know no woman will date me thanks for pointing it out work people, I shouldn’t talk to them I try to make small talk about stuff work related but they just want to talk about what a loser I am
And I can’t exactly tell them why I am or to f**k off

Also you use to say I wrote good, but I never did beleive it much.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:29 am

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What would you tell a physical disabled man or a man with severe mental condition? Cause that’s the same advice yiu should give me I’m permanently disabled I can’t work a good job.

What I'd tell a physically or mentally disabled person who was unable to attract a partner due to their disability is to try to meet people in similar situations to their own. It doesn't have to be the exact same disability but something that impairs their attractiveness and what they can do with their lives in similar enough ways.
A partner living in a similarly restricted way to their own wouldn't need to give up on anything to be with them.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:29 am

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Do you think dating was less shallow in the Victorian times? lol

Dating sites just reflect the realities of human instincts, what’s so wrong in dating sites tho is the imbalanced sex ratio.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:30 am

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F*** frustration man, it's so frustrating. I think lately I've been kind of the same tbh.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:31 am

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What would you tell a physical disabled man or a man with severe mental condition? Cause that’s the same advice yiu should give me I’m permanently disabled I can’t work a good job.

Unfortunately most women date up. I’ve tried seeking out poor women or disabled women they want a guy who can provide for them.
One told me I was great but she wants to take trips to Hawaii so I either need to get a real job or we can’t date. She lives with her family and works min wage job

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15 Dec 2018, 5:33 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

hurtloam wrote:

Do you think dating was less shallow in the Victorian times? lol

Dating sites just reflect the realities of human instincts, what’s so wrong in dating sites tho is the imbalanced sex ratio.

That same I’m alanc exists in my area. There’s more men then women.
You see the same thing in China where there’s way more men then women.
We also have a lot of young women here going to college who aren’t included in the population

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15 Dec 2018, 5:33 am

What the f*** is going on? Why all this f***ing emotional horsesh*** emotional bursts? Why we are all being such snowflake d***.

That’s fun...

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15 Dec 2018, 5:34 am

NorthWind wrote:

sly279 wrote:

What would you tell a physical disabled man or a man with severe mental condition? Cause that’s the same advice yiu should give me I’m permanently disabled I can’t work a good job.

^This. Maybe even someone who is physically disabled and needs constant care. Sly could be their full-time carer and not have to go out to work.

Kudos on being a voice of reason, NorthWind. Certainly seems as though we have a shortage of those in modern times.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:36 am

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:

NorthWind wrote:

sly279 wrote:

What would you tell a physical disabled man or a man with severe mental condition? Cause that’s the same advice yiu should give me I’m permanently disabled I can’t work a good job.

I agree, NorthWind is a rare specimen indeed.

We should capture her, and clone her.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:36 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

What the f*** is going on? Why all this f***ing emotional horsesh*** emotional bursts? Why we are all being such snowflake d***.

That’s fun...

Go on, Boo. Let it all out!

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15 Dec 2018, 5:41 am

NorthWind wrote:

sly279 wrote:

What would you tell a physical disabled man or a man with severe mental condition? Cause that’s the same advice yiu should give me I’m permanently disabled I can’t work a good job.

If I could find a nice lady with depression and social anxiety I would happily give her a chance. Unfortunately, depression and anxiety groups seem to be filled with men. Every I go it's always god damn men. I'm sick to death of men. Life shouldn't be one big sausage fest.

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15 Dec 2018, 5:43 am

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NorthWind wrote:

sly279 wrote:

What would you tell a physical disabled man or a man with severe mental condition? Cause that’s the same advice yiu should give me I’m permanently disabled I can’t work a good job.

Life is a dick.

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