To all Aspie men who are angry with women.

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What makes you think gays don't design slut chic or naked?

Aridarr if you could have picked the one topic that will probably go on forever this is it.

Because there is no woman who has gone to Paris and spent thousands of dollars to learn that running around naked is what's currently in vogue.

You think we could convince them it is?
...Time to call up all my designer friends... Hey, if those "new clothes" worked on "The Emperor"...

I'll go along with the naked fashion if guys do too.
Unless it's cold, of course.

What I'm so p*ssed about is that I've polished myself up to a good degree and yet still make stupid decisions... I actually wasn't naive enough.

But I'm still going for her I mean - I couldn't possibly feel any more pain than I already am feeling. But I'm very proud too - if there's a shot with someone else I'll try to take it up... I'm loyal... extremely loyal but I will try my utmost to not be plagued by loyalty.

Ick! I really dont care to see guys running around naked all the time.Just stick w/ slut chic.

Ya, I don't think I could pay the price of having to see guys naked as well.

I guess women will have to leave their clothes on after all...

I'll go naked if all guys agree to dress like Goths.

...Female Goths...

Aridarr I like your style. lol

Aridarr wrote:

Well then-WTF would You do if you were in this situation?? hmm?

If the purpose of your post about aspie men who resent women is to induce humility in guys like myself than you have totally failed to do such for me. My approach is not to whine and complain about how much I resent women for not wanting to jump in bed with me. If you're trying to tell me that Im not entitled to it, Im here to tell you that that really makes no difference to me in terms of my attitude. The fact remains: I want it, and I will do Whatever is Necessary to get it! Its a lot like money in America. Having it is what matters, not how you go about getting it. I have self-respect, and I'll be damned if I take the blame for something which is not in my control! Afterall, losers are MADE, not born.

The point I was trying to make was there, was that there are a lot of women who go through just as much crap when trying to find a mate as a lot of Aspie men do. I have a close Aspie female friend who is single and has been treated very badly by men, she wants a boyfriend; but she can't find anyone who is interested.

My point was that when it comes to romance, all people have difficulty, regardless of gender; so it is best not to be resentful towards all people of the opposite sex. Somewhere, out there, a women is going through all the pain at the hands of a man that some men here accuse women of putting them through.

Love is hell for both genders.

Your point is very resonable. Though your initial post in this thread came across as condescending and somewhat provocative.
I have to wonder what you'd say to a woman who is overweight, unattractive, and expressing anger towards men....

I made that post months ago; and I'm not quite sure what I was thinking back then.

My problem isn't with women in general, it's with NT's in general. Why do they have to be so damn deceptive? If I knew whether they liked me or not it would make it a hell of a lot easier to make a move already knowing what the outcome is...

It took me so long to figure this out. All you ever hear is that girls will like you for who you are, that you are fine just the way you are, that all you need to do is tell her how you feel. Guys are taught to be ass-kissing wussbags their entire lives; we get set up for a lifetime of disappointment.

We learn from horrible, corrupt, abusive women who are complete failures in life (colloquially known as "teachers") that women cannot be trusted, that they will hurt you, and that they must be pleased. We then generalize that onto the remainder of the non-psycho female population, unfairly making them pay.

We learn that women are not People, but scary, terrifying things that make us horny, one-dimensional Others.

I agree with your analogy - if a girl was 400 pounds and never washed or brushed her teeth, she would not fit most men's idea of "attractive".

If a girl was taught her entire life that in order to get men, she HAD to get fat and refrain from grooming, she would be frustrated and angry too; this is what happens with guys, especially guys that have a strong drive to do the right thing, aka the dreaded "nice guy".

A lot of men get frustrated because they think they are doing all the right things, checking all the boxes, and then get rebuffed.

That is why it is so damn refreshing to see a woman cut the crap and tell it like it is.

Nice guys aren't being nice, they are trying to score. Most are not conscious of this, though. If you have been trained that your sexuality is inherently injurious and offensive to women, it will mess you up to the point where you deny to yourself that you even want to have sex. You feel torn between your biological drives and the moronic feminist crap you have been forcefed your entire life, and it can be hellish.

But the good part is that if someone like you, a woman, says what they are doing is wrong, they'll believe it more readily than if a man says it.

Good stuff.

I like the naked look in footwear ie. bare feet. Women who cram their feet into tight shoes often get ugly bunions, hammertoes and cracked heels plus horrid looking toenails.