How many times have you been rejected?

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Three times which makes me 0-3
I have found myself in two relantionships through pure luck not with the girls that I asked out though.

None. I don't bother with women anymore, I just ignore them.

Why use anyone? Why would you want to reduce a human being to something undignified in your thoughts and then why would you want to be around them? It is a good thing we are all equal in our dignity as persons so that no man can make less the value of another. Are you unsure of your own dignity? The premise is that for all you are, it is good enough even wonderful regardless of circumstance because you are a man or woman and also because you have the capacity to create things into the world like kindness, love etc. Or you can use this life to create other stuff. Again you have a choice in how you respond to people regardless if the situation is one you see as favorable or not. Don't short change yourself.

You can't logically transfer feelings of some experiences with people and generalize that all will treat you the same. It is possible some of the experiences you now have you are confused about the intentions of people. Test them with what is above. Some people have life lessons to learn and may act according to some social conditioning. We all do. I appreciate when someone gives me a break. Experiencing love has something to do with bearing the burdens of others. Give them the chance to show their humanity and don't withhold yours from them.

I don't know if this is relevant or not, but i heard that being rejected here in North America (or at least in Quebec) is taken very as a very personal matter whereas in France, it's not and guys just keep trying over n over even if they get rejected once or twice.

People like you are burdens on society. By using women, you make the whole male sex look bad, thereby making it harder for guys who actually want relationships.

I know you won't give a s**t and you'll just keep searching for holes to stick your filthy little dick into, but I'm entitled to say whatever I damn well please.

So what are some other peoples experiences with rejection?

Ten times maybe. My approach to girls has been sort of slow. As in I wasn't interested or aware of what I should be doing until I was 18 or so. To say it in a different way, my relationship development was at the state of young teenager when I was 18.

So all the potential pitfalls and learning many enduring during high school never really happened for me.

I find most girls uninteresting and sort of boring, even if I find the sort of attractive on the surface. Every once and a while a really interesting girl crosses my path and I strike up the gumption to pursue a relationship. It has ended painfully every-time.

My problem is a lack of experience, and a lack of women I'm genuinely interested in. If I chased after every girl I find physically attractive, by shear numbers I'd probably get a relationship or two... and a heck of a lot of experience. But I'm just really indifferent to most out there... and I don't feel like faking it.

I've also been rejected by the same girl twice on two non-consecutive occasions. How about that!