11 Aug 2009, 7:45 pm
11 Aug 2009, 8:52 pm
Willard wrote:
Space wrote:
So you get girls because they were drunk and that got them horny, and then they were willing to sleep with you? This is no revelation or progress.
In the first place, I prefaced my post with the statement that I had no advice on securing or nurturing a long-term relationship. Its my personal position that most Aspies are not neurologically suited to them, but good luck trying.
Secondly, I'm sorry you're having difficulty understand something even when it's explained and illustrated. I 'got girls' (crike, how juvenile) by simply being straightforward and placing the decision-making squarely in their hands, rather than playing games or assuming anything. So snipe if you will, but I got action like a professional athlete - how's your system working for you?
BTW, I don't know where you get the idea that alcohol is any kind of aphrodisiac. It's a depressant. It may reduce inhibition somewhat, but it does not as you so crudely say make anyone 'horny'.
Marijuana , on the other hand, does.
I wasn't taking a snipe at you, my point was, how do you get sex through honesty without them being under the influence of drugs and alcohol? I've been honest with women and it has worked exactly once, and I get 1 night stand. So I basically have get drunk and stoned girls at my house and give them the option to sleep on the couch or with me if I ever want sex again?
11 Aug 2009, 9:30 pm
12 Aug 2009, 2:53 am
anna-banana wrote:
outright lying is a bit over the top. you should focus on using euphemisms and cool sounding names for shameful things, for example- if you're a cleaner, tell her you're a Flat Surfaces Manager, if you're a janitor you're a Maintenance Director. if you have an old car say it's "vintage" etc
A user called Dox or something (the cool guy with gun) suggested this way, it's still lying nevertheless.
A cleaner's title is cleaner and not Flat Surfaces Manager , a janitor is not a Maintenance Director , he's probably stealing the title of his supervisor.
It's like you're saying that you're a doctor or manager while you're a nurse or assistant manager.
An used old car is an old car. Vintage cars are classic and look like this:
and only very wealthy people can buy them.
However, coming from you, your suggestion just proves the article's point , women force men to lie
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12 Aug 2009, 3:16 am
12 Aug 2009, 3:51 am
12 Aug 2009, 4:14 am
12 Aug 2009, 4:17 am
LePetitPrince wrote:
MissConstrue wrote:
I believe most of us got skipped so I'm not even going to begin to take this thread seriously....
However I do love vintage cars....but if I got one it'd have to mine...all mine!! !!
However I do love vintage cars....but if I got one it'd have to mine...all mine!! !!
*Replied*
12 Aug 2009, 6:34 am
14 Aug 2009, 1:30 am
14 Aug 2009, 1:40 am
14 Aug 2009, 6:16 am
14 Aug 2009, 6:23 am
14 Aug 2009, 8:18 am
Space wrote:
Rack wrote:
There are probably quite a lot more shallow materialistic women out there than will admit to being shallow and materialistic, and of course the ones who aren't are more likely to get into stable, long term relationships. Low on the status chain and without the social awareness needed to spot women like this aspies are likely to run into this kind of woman far more than is representative, which will easily lead to this kind of warped view.
On topic I reckon aspies are more likely to be hurt by sharing too much than by not lying. If you're a floor surfaces manager, that's probably not something you want to throw out there until you've already demonstrated some other good characteristics. And given how quickly aspies fall for people it's probably to rein that in a bit early on.
On topic I reckon aspies are more likely to be hurt by sharing too much than by not lying. If you're a floor surfaces manager, that's probably not something you want to throw out there until you've already demonstrated some other good characteristics. And given how quickly aspies fall for people it's probably to rein that in a bit early on.
You're probably right about all that.
Just as there are relatively as many shallow guys hiding in the closet....
14 Aug 2009, 9:57 am
14 Aug 2009, 10:04 am
MDD123 wrote:
I know a few really deep guys, they give women the creeps.
I've known deep women who either look plain or too ugly for guys...
Then again, I would have to know one's interpretation in the meaning deep for it to mean deep...
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