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jefe
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12 Sep 2009, 9:11 am

lol find out. Stop torturing yourself.


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12 Sep 2009, 11:33 am

jefe wrote:
lol find out. Stop torturing yourself.
lol, it's not like I want to but I worry about everything I do when it seems like there's a chance.



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12 Sep 2009, 12:06 pm

j5689 wrote:
jefe wrote:
lol find out. Stop torturing yourself.
lol, it's not like I want to but I worry about everything I do when it seems like there's a chance.


Yes, well me too. haha I don't practice what I preach. There's this girl that works in the dining commons and today I decided I had the balls to approach her (keep in mind we have never spoken), except she wasn't working when I went in, doh! Hopefully I can find the courage to do it again.

You gotta figure 50/50 chance of getting rejected before you open your mouth (probably higher, 50% chance of already being in a relationship, plus other factors). Then 80% chance of failure once you start talking. Conclusion? Keep trying (not with same girl heh).


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12 Sep 2009, 12:13 pm

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Is there a reason she's being coy you think?

That may just be how she is. It's a way for her to be safer, not risking as much.

And, well, you're probably a little weird, which can be good or bad. It seems like you have a techie bonding thing going, so it's probably a good thing.

What about lunchtime?


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12 Sep 2009, 3:12 pm

duke666 wrote:
j5689 wrote:
Is there a reason she's being coy you think?

That may just be how she is. It's a way for her to be safer, not risking as much.

And, well, you're probably a little weird, which can be good or bad. It seems like you have a techie bonding thing going, so it's probably a good thing.

What about lunchtime?
Yeah, I've got things in my favor in the respect. I know for sure that she doesn't know anyone that's as good with tech stuff as I am. It is DAMN hard to beat an aspie at that. It's a field we're known to excel in.

Not sure, I want to get a little bit closer to her inside of school before I start asking her to do stuff. So far I think things are going well, someone on another forum said I'm in the "inner circle" with her.

It's reasonable to keep things going how they are without trying to push outside activities, right?