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08 Aug 2010, 2:01 pm

We don't care what you like. Do you see anyone else posting pictures of women they don't know saying they want her to be their girlfriend?

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08 Aug 2010, 2:01 pm

No woman dresses like that any more do they?
I know some cross-dressers that do, but its for stage..

It is all 80's .. sorry..
And it is a good thing it did end..
You have any idea how much hairspray most women used back then?

When did they start freaking out about the hole in the Ozone...

Good luck building your time machine..

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08 Aug 2010, 2:05 pm

It's about MY ideal girlfriend. I'm pretty sure you all have your ideal boyfriend/girlfriend in your head. The difference is that I'm brave enough to let people know what I want in a woman and there's nothing that your negative thoughts do to ruin my dreams.

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08 Aug 2010, 2:08 pm

KaiG wrote:

This is a lady I'd classify as exotic looking:

She's Alyssah Ali, a Canadian of Spanish and Indian descent.

she doesn't look at all exotic to a canadian lol. because of the high immigrant population here, there is nothing terribly unusual about the way this girl looks. pretty, but not exotic.

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08 Aug 2010, 2:15 pm

I don't see anything wrong with your initial post. You have fine taste in women. I'd agree with some others that her style could use some work, but she's got good raw material to work with.

And regarding the girl that KaiG posted and -err - I can't remember who responded that a girl like that would never be interested in a HFA guy - but I used to model all the time and find aspie traits very charming in men.

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08 Aug 2010, 2:17 pm

You also are an Aspie, though, so you understand it and have been there.

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08 Aug 2010, 2:19 pm

happymusic wrote:

Finally a sane poster, I thought the pic was good example of what I want in a woman. Someone who isn't considered a 10, but someone is somewhere between a 5-8 which is my perfect zone for me. The people on the boards are just too afraid to talk to a woman in my opinion and they use their HFA as an excuse not to do that.

I agree with you that she is beuatiful, but I respectfully disagree that she doesn't really need a makeover because she is fine the way she is.

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08 Aug 2010, 2:23 pm

foreveryoung wrote:

You also are an Aspie, though, so you understand it and have been there.

Good point. But you don't know when a girl like that might be an aspie too, or at least more interested in someone who has aspie traits - even if she doesn't know what they're called.

JML101582 wrote:

I agree with you that she is beuatiful, but I respectfully disagree that she doesn't really need a makeover because she is fine the way she is.

A girl would love you for that.

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08 Aug 2010, 2:27 pm

So exotic is a socially appropriate way to say you prefer a certain race over another?

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08 Aug 2010, 2:30 pm

JML101582 wrote:

happymusic wrote:

Why don't you ask her out then instead of obsessing over her? She's not hot, you may actually stand a chance.

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08 Aug 2010, 2:33 pm

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Why don't you ask her out then instead of obsessing over her? She's not hot, you may actually stand a chance.

You still don't get it, do you? I am using that as an example of what I want in a woman. If I do meet somebody like that, I wouldn't hesitate to ask her out regardless of my disablity.

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08 Aug 2010, 2:36 pm

JML101582 wrote:

It's about MY ideal girlfriend. I'm pretty sure you all have your ideal boyfriend/girlfriend in your head. The difference is that I'm brave enough to let people know what I want in a woman

You asked if anyone agreed with you, that opened it up for people to disagree with you.
I was a lot older then 7 when the 80's ended and I was very glad it was over. Mostly because of the styles back then..

I am not into women, but I posted seriously with some tongue-in-cheek when I responded to
"kept and clean which is why I think she has the appearance of being an intelligent,"
just sadly, most do not think a woman could be more into brains, then the other stuff..

JML101582 wrote:

and there's nothing that your negative thoughts do to ruin my dreams.

This. I really like and respect.

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08 Aug 2010, 2:41 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

KaiG wrote:

This is a lady I'd classify as exotic looking:

She's Alyssah Ali, a Canadian of Spanish and Indian descent.

she doesn't look at all exotic to a canadian lol. because of the high immigrant population here, there is nothing terribly unusual about the way this girl looks. pretty, but not exotic.

I was thinking the same thing. The term 'exotic' has never made any sense to me, be it used on people or fruit.
The first time someone said that to me, I was like wtf? errmm I am from Canada, there is nothing exotic about it, to me at least,
others may think differently..

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08 Aug 2010, 2:43 pm

JML101582 wrote:

For the last time I am NOT stalking, what's with you people? Are you people that paranoid about what I like in a woman? I thought you would be more open-minded about what I want, but you're just souless people if you think that I am stalking some one I don't know.

now now, he's a Fail Stalker, be fair :lol:

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08 Aug 2010, 2:45 pm

foreveryoung wrote:

Why don't you ask her out then instead of obsessing over her? She's not hot, you may actually stand a chance.

I think he just posted the picture as an example of what he finds attractive in women, not that he's actually got a crush on this particular one.

@buryuntime, yes, I think, regardless of value judgment, exotic is a socially acceptable way of expressing a preference for certain physical attributes, but it's not restricted to one race. It just has to be different than what you're used to. In a predominately Western society, it usually ends up meaning someone not Caucasian, and that could be someone from just about anywhere. I usually take it to mean women who are half white mixed with something a little darker. It could mean Latina, too, I suppose.

My blonde mother in law was quite exotic in Morocco where a man offered to trade my father-in-law some livestock for her. LOL!! !

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08 Aug 2010, 2:48 pm

happymusic wrote:

foreveryoung wrote:

Why don't you ask her out then instead of obsessing over her? She's not hot, you may actually stand a chance.

Thank you, that's the response I'm looking for.

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