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17 Mar 2008, 4:27 pm

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I LOVE MY WIFE"S THICK THIGHS AND BUTT!! ! Women are supposed to have an hourglass shape.


Amen, brother! And, for great justice...

I like big butts and I cannot lie
You other brothers can't deny
And when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist
And a round thing in your face
You get sprung
Wanna pull up tuff
Cuz you notice that butt was stuffed
Deep in the jeans she's wearing
I'm hooked and I can't stop staring
Oh, baby I wanna get witcha
And take your pictcha
My homeboys tried ta warn me
But that butt you got
Makes m-m-me so horny
Ooh, rub that smooth skin
You say you wanna get in my benz
Well use me use me cuz you aint that average groupy


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17 Mar 2008, 4:30 pm

The top one looks more my style.
I wouldn't be surprised if the photo of the second model is touched-up to create the skeleton look through her swimsuit.

Here's some photos of women I find very pretty...
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I can appreciate a woman's body being within a wide range of sizes.
I find who she is to be an essential part of her beauty also.
I don't look at just one aspect of a person as far as attraction goes. :D


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17 Mar 2008, 4:34 pm

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Most of the women "flocking" to have breast implants are in the adult entertainment industry, any woman that can support herself isn't likely to want them.


Not always. I've known some girls, friends even, who've had it done and it seemed like it was more for themselves and for psychological reasons - not strippers or even single, they had longterm boyfriends. Of course when it is something that people phrase to themselves as self improvement, quite often it does go back around the opposite sex directly or indirectly. I can imagine quite a few women who would do so as well just because they may feel it would give them a competitive edge in other areas in life just because, sadly, in our culture its not far from the truth that people do rate on such things.



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17 Mar 2008, 4:41 pm

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Hands down, Jen Hunter is a very sexy woman. I don't even know how to classify the second one. You have to remember, the fashion industry (or so my wife tells me) is not interested in the models, they are interested in showing-off the clothes, that's why they seek out human clothes hangers--the clothing is the point!

yeh but i think that swim suit doesn't look very good on a human clothes hanger.



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17 Mar 2008, 4:43 pm

techstepgenr8tion wrote:
zee wrote:
Most of the women "flocking" to have breast implants are in the adult entertainment industry, any woman that can support herself isn't likely to want them.


Not always. I've known some girls, friends even, who've had it done and it seemed like it was more for themselves and for psychological reasons - not strippers or even single, they had longterm boyfriends. Of course when it is something that people phrase to themselves as self improvement, quite often it does go back around the opposite sex directly or indirectly. I can imagine quite a few women who would do so as well just because they may feel it would give them a competitive edge in other areas in life just because, sadly, in our culture its not far from the truth that people do rate on such things.


They probably do it because of insecurity, yes. There used to be this show about people who had different types of plastic surgery, and they would do interviews before and after about their motives... most of them seemed like they were really self-conscious and they thought if they were more attractive they would have a better life. Most of them were pretty natural-looking people, and many said they wanted to have more surgical procedures afterwards.
So I don't think it has anything to do with the opposite sex, I think they are just trying to build some sort of self-worth. Or else it's really sad if they think it will find them a loving partner, because they would theoretically love them for something they bought, not something they are.



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17 Mar 2008, 4:46 pm

I think it's interesting how quick people are to disparage the thinner model. Calling her "disgusting" and a "walking skeleton" is just as rude as calling the first woman a "whale" or fat.


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17 Mar 2008, 4:48 pm

She is a skeleton, that's pretty much a fact. She looks ugly in that bathing suit, all bumpy like a sack of rocks.



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17 Mar 2008, 4:52 pm

the_incident wrote:
I think it's interesting how quick people are to disparage the thinner model. Calling her "disgusting" and a "walking skeleton" is just as rude as calling the first woman a "whale" or fat.


As a general rule, a healthy person is much more attractive than an unhealthy one.



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17 Mar 2008, 4:53 pm

She's not ugly because she's too skinny, she's ugly because she made herself that way to be "beautiful."

I don't find sell-outs attractive.


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17 Mar 2008, 4:53 pm

Not fair choice I don't care for either honestly I like cute more than sexy or anything but I do prefer the on that doesn't make me want to send money to a poor hungry child...


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17 Mar 2008, 5:05 pm

Healthy = Better Looking
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17 Mar 2008, 5:28 pm

I wonder what Anubis would have to say about this. :lol:


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17 Mar 2008, 5:33 pm

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Healthy = Better Looking
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It gives me a sense of relief to see that photo, but at the same time. my perception has been so altered that I see most of those as large... and I am female.

I find the emaciated model most unattractive, but by the same token, I find the look of a rounded butt put in underwear really disgusting.

But then I have a dysmorphia issue with butts.



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17 Mar 2008, 5:51 pm

Graelwyn wrote:
I find the look of a rounded butt put in underwear really disgusting.


I wish you could see women through my eyes for a day. I personally find all types of women attractive, but there is nothing like a heart-shaped female butt in a nicely cut undergarment.



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17 Mar 2008, 6:03 pm

Yes but when a male sees a heart shaped female butt in underwear, all he really cares about is getting sex from the owner in general. It is very rarely just artistic appeal...That is my opinion anyway. Feel free to challenge it. I just think the female body is there for two reasons...to bear kids, and to provide sex.



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17 Mar 2008, 6:05 pm

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So I don't think it has anything to do with the opposite sex, I think they are just trying to build some sort of self-worth. Or else it's really sad if they think it will find them a loving partner, because they would theoretically love them for something they bought, not something they are.


Yeah, I guess that can come in many other ways: depression, feeling like they could be doing better than they are in general - a social life that feels too stagnant or uninspired, even if its pretty active, can drive people stir-crazy and make them wonder what they can do to stack their odds.