Do most men on WP hate women?

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I dont hate women love them and wish to give them hugs its just sometimes I am afraid too at times that they will be mean to me and stuff or not like me but i still have a soft side for them but am too shy as well so I let them make all the moves.

I dont hate women...I wish I could hug them and snuggle with them and tell them how I really feel and maybe lower my guard and give myself to them!

I will freely admit. I hate women with every fiber of my being

Don't be too vulnerable, an angry woman might take advantage of you!

That isn't going to help you get a date. Unless you want to date a dude.

Good point Hale Bopp!

I'm beginning to relate strongly to denison200's post. At least he's honest, He's 50%+ of the way to solving what might be a problem, & 100% of the way of realizing that maybe it isn't a problem.
I had never in my life assumed that liking somebody was a crime. I humbly stand corrected. I guess in my case it is.

Last edited by NinsMom on 02 Apr 2014, 10:05 am, edited 1 time in total.

Whats wrong with liking women? I think what it boils down to is we tend to argue and get eachother frustrated but we get over it because well were different but we as humans have feelings for eachother in times of need. Thats just my two yen on that though.

Really? why?

Moar 4 MI!

so you'll freely admit that, but not tell us why?

you sound well-adjusted.

I think he probably had many bad experiences with women that it has turned him bitter and hateful towards women, just like how there are some women with many bad experiences with men they turn hateful and bitter towards men. It doesnt always go one way I am sure the individual was kind hearted at first but then overtime was hurt many times it has hardened in order to protect his heart.

Another possibility is he does not know how to treat women or interact and they dump him for it and he simply dismisses it as their fault and not his own. There may be times I might have this problem there might also not I have ended up in an abusive relationship which did not help and at times after wards I have had moments where I may be as bitter as him guarding my heart guarding myself. Sometimes one has to guard his or her heart to avoid being hurt again but for too long it is hurting other people who want in who want to connect, and that same individual is not only hurting those who want to connect and be in his or her life he or she is hurting him or herself in the long run. *sigh* Sorry I had to get that off of my chest.

Many years of heart break and rejection does that to a person it is not always his fault and it is not always her fault. Over times one gets into denial of fault of those rejections or realizes or thinks he or she is at fault at all times which is very damaging to both the mind and heart and he or she closes his oneself in from the rest of society and the world. I know personally.

So anyone with a penis here says he doesn't hate women would get a 'dishonesty card' from Ninsmom.

You can't win.

I like women more than I do men even just as friends.

Men have always seemed more ego driven and women less judgemental.

I probably have a twisted viewpoint though due to living in rough areas all my life.

all my male friends have always been bad boys

Nope! I'm just saying that "At least he was honest about it." (which is better than kidding yourself, or shining on others about what you feel, or don't feel.)

I like women but sometimes im afraid and i guard my heart at times and close myself up but fail to realize until recently that doing so does more harm than good and it hurts them, it is the same kind of feeling like if you want to lend a helping hand to someone you care about and they attack you kinda thing. So I have decided I will have to trust them I will have to let them in and be confident and not be afraid if I do not I will be miserable for the rest of my life and continue to hurt others without knowing it and also causing myself more pain out of loneliness and fear as well. I need to connect and need to let them connect and it will work and things will be good.

It seems so sometimes, but that could easily be confirmation bias. Any kind of hating is much more noticeable than the not-hating. There does seem a lot of it, though.

I think there are several things going on, in a venn diagram kind of way:

First, the general gender rancour which abounds in NT society - no reason, unfortunately, why this wouldn't be reflected amongst autists and aspergians. Gender relations and identities are not as fixed as they were/could be, and this is upsetting to people who don't have issues with needing routine/difficulty understanding others/are given to fixed, binary thinking, let alone those who do.

That people with Aspergers are supposed to be more 'logical'. Therefore, goes the thinking, if I think something, it is logical, and so right and good. And if I don't understand something - like, say, women - that can only be because it is illogical. And illogical is bad.

Similarly, an attachment to a certain take on being 'rational', and from that a certain scientistic/biologistic essentialism as to how men and women 'really' are - with women not living up to their end of the bargain, or saying (through speech or behaviour) they want one thing when 'science' tells us they should want something else, and frustration at women who aren't behaving as they are ('scientifically') supposed to.

This relates to the PUA/Game/alpha crap. Those who otherwise have bad luck with women turn to it for help. It affects how they see the world - not just in how they think women are, but in the very idea that they are there to be manipulated into bed.

Understandable given the demographics, but there is a definite US-centrism on the board. From that, an assumption that gender relations as experienced in the present time US reflect some deep state of 'nature', and so any perceived confusion on the part of women is testament to their inherent, ineluctable duplicitious nature.