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12 Apr 2024, 9:50 am

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Ok so what's your plan gonna be then


Dunno if I block them on whatsapp that is rude



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12 Apr 2024, 9:54 am

To some people it might seem rude. I dunno though.

I've blocked most people who I know on WhatsApp because they do that group thing and I can't be doing with it so I just block them. I can't ever remember anyone having a problem with me over it but then most people wouldn't let you know if they had a problem


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12 Apr 2024, 9:56 am

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To some people it might seem rude. I dunno though.

I've blocked most people who I know on WhatsApp because they do that group thing and I can't be doing with it so I just block them. I can't ever remember anyone having a problem with me over it but then most people wouldn't let you know if they had a problem



Is really angry with my parents for leaving me by myself for 3-4 weeks. I am a vulnerable adult.



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12 Apr 2024, 9:57 am

Are you scared


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12 Apr 2024, 9:59 am

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Are you scared



Yeah I am a bit. 2 weeks away would be alright but nearly a month is way to long



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12 Apr 2024, 10:00 am

I don't know what WhatsApp is Jamesy, but I don't think blocking a person would be rude under the circumstance. Correct me if I'm wrong but it sounds like they want you to go to the pub more, and you're not interested. You might also want to try telling them by text or in person that you can't afford it, you don't want to drink so much, or you're trying to cut back by pursuing other interests, assuming that's true.

We all want you to be safe and healthy, and do what you believe is in your best interest.


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12 Apr 2024, 10:01 am

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babybird wrote:
Are you scared



Yeah I am a bit. 2 weeks away would be alright but nearly a month is way to long


When are they back


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12 Apr 2024, 10:02 am

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Jamesy wrote:
babybird wrote:
Are you scared



Yeah I am a bit. 2 weeks away would be alright but nearly a month is way to long


When are they back



Sunday morning



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12 Apr 2024, 10:04 am

Ok well just chill out. It's not long to wait now.

Have you been at home by yourself all this time or is your brother there with you


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12 Apr 2024, 10:04 am

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I don't know what WhatsApp is Jamesy, but I don't think blocking a person would be rude under the circumstance. Correct me if I'm wrong but it sounds like they want you to go to the pub more, and you're not interested. You might also want to try telling them by text or in person that you can't afford it, you don't want to drink so much, or you're trying to cut back by pursuing other interests, assuming that's true.

We all want you to be safe and healthy, and do what you believe is in your best interest.



There texting vulgar things to me as well



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12 Apr 2024, 10:05 am

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Ok well just chill out. It's not long to wait now.

Have you been at home by yourself all this time or is your brother there with you



My brother lives in London

No never been on my own for this long



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12 Apr 2024, 10:06 am

Block them. ^

If it's on a social media platform I think you can also report them for harassment.


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12 Apr 2024, 10:07 am

Jamesy wrote:
babybird wrote:
Ok well just chill out. It's not long to wait now.

Have you been at home by yourself all this time or is your brother there with you



My brother lives in London

No never been on my own for this long


You're doing well then


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12 Apr 2024, 10:07 am

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Block them. ^

If it's on a social media platform I think you can also report them for harassment.



Well if I block them I have to confront them at the pub



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12 Apr 2024, 10:07 am

Jamesy wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
I don't know what WhatsApp is Jamesy, but I don't think blocking a person would be rude under the circumstance. Correct me if I'm wrong but it sounds like they want you to go to the pub more, and you're not interested. You might also want to try telling them by text or in person that you can't afford it, you don't want to drink so much, or you're trying to cut back by pursuing other interests, assuming that's true.

We all want you to be safe and healthy, and do what you believe is in your best interest.



There texting vulgar things to me as well


Block them


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12 Apr 2024, 10:09 am

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No never been on my own for this long


I'm sure there are things you can do around the house to keep yourself busy until their return. Have you cleaned up the house, washed your clothes and bedding, and cleaned out the fridge etc?

That might make you feel good, and I'm sure your parents would be pleased too.


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