Claims that a few "super hot men" are hogging all the women

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Actually, you want to know what's funny. When I was in college and during that time I refocused my priorities from trying to get dates to getting my degree. I focused on my studies and I quit thinking about getting a date and through a series of events I met the love of my life. I would be considered undatable as well. Yet, I'm happily married. How did that happen(rhetorical question)?

I also loved to write my own little stories and watch tv as well to pass the time when I wasn't doing my school work.

So, I think you're on to something Twilight. I don't know if you've ever heard of the paradox of happiness but the paradox says that if one tries to directly pursue happiness one won't get it but if one does not pursue it one eventually achieves it. Sometimes, one has to quit and refocus on other things.

As of right now, we're moving to China and I will be teaching Chinese kids English. How about that.

I'm about to get into some new agey stuff and no it is not scientific but maybe the universe or existence has a certain flow sort of like a river and when one learns to go along with this flow things are more likely to work for you in the end if you do not (No guarantees though.)

Exactly? What kinds of women would they be?

It seems to me that the online dating system is broken, but people are increasingly relying on it for convenience.

You know what's funny. I did the same thing and didn't meet anyone.

There are no guarantees no matter what you do or don't do. But, certain things are more likely to happen or not happen if you do or don't do certain things. But sometimes ya got to change your focus to other things if nothing else to keep yourself from obsessing over something.

I could have more artfully constructed my response, but some topics get under my thick scaly hide and this can be one of them. I was feeling petty and was flippant in my response because well it felt good.

My point was that you were speaking from "survivor bias."

I totally agree with you, Mona just shoved words in our months.
Notice that I haven’t even used the term “alpha males”, just “super hot men”, I was referring to the good looks only, to those who have an undeniable advantage in apps like Tinder.

Nor I did any blame game, just talking about a well known factor affecting the dating scheme.

And the title is also wrong, I said apps is making it easy for the average women *on dating apps* to sleep with “super hot men”; not that these super hot men are monopolizing all women; and certainly not the case in real life, otherwise the increasing gap would be more disastrous.

I stand with my position: this thread is defaming (thro the misinterpretation you pointed out) some members, whether it is intentional or not it doesn’t matter.
And I stil think it has to be locked, and oh break0 your insults and tantrums don’t scare me, I stand with what I said.

Last edited by The_Face_of_Boo on 23 Jun 2019, 12:14 am, edited 2 times in total.

Too much porn causes erectile dysfunction in men. It is a dangerous mental habit if one wants a relationship with a real person.
I have stopped watching any since 3 years - and I am atheist.

The redneck men and hip-hop thugs in my area aren't always "hot". A lot of them are fat or rail thin, have a two digit vocabulary, wear cheap clothes, work at gas stations, drive banged up vehicles, and they get girlfriends easily though they often settle for women who are fat or rail thin as well. Mainstream Bible Belt men tend to be either super rich or just average. The super rich ones I know have supermodel-esque wives while the average ones tend to have "Plain Jane" wives.

My mother and older brother wanted me to date a "Plain Jane" woman who was part of the Aspergers support group I used to be part of. She was from a very religious family and had no interest in anime, manga, comics, and music that wasn't church music. She was actually afraid of R-rated movies. However, despite my mother and older brother's pressuring, her parents wouldn't let her date and now they don't even let her have male friends.

Well she certainly is "hot" no dispute there, but how is she racist? she's looking for men who like women aged 19-60!

I think this is a fair assessment of things

If you really wanna show good faith then request a lock.

I see absolutely no reason why this topic should be locked, and I don't understand why you are continuing to insist on it even though I have addressed all of your objections. I have repeatedly apologized to you and edited the original post accordingly. Why is that not enough for you?

(I'll be responding to GrandInquisitor shortly.)

It is obvious that me and Grand aren’t very grateful from this thread and felt attacked on stuff we didn’t say and attributed to us, Grand didn’t ask for a lock but even him felt attacked for stuff he did not say.

The damage was already done, we got defamed here and your edits came too late.
So if you really care to show a good faith, request a lock.

Bye for now, I have a lunch date to catch.

Well is anyone else curious to know how Boo's lunch date went?

let's hope we find out before this thread get's locked

I think most of the claims of the OP are wrong. I don't think women tend to get more bi or lesbian as they age, and I know for sure that gender identities are very fluid in early teenage, but stabilize towards "normality" as men and women get into their 20s. The only relevant trait here that is rather stable is asexuality.

I would suggest that the claim that women's sexuality is more fluid is completely wrong. I would likewise suggest that it is completely wrong that women like sexual intercourse to the same degree as men do. And I think this is the major reason why women are turned off by sex in the traditional way and get into lesbian and gender queer identities. Women no longer have to accept that sexual intercourse is a requirement in a relationship, and I'm sure this is a major reason why many men that are "undatable" will end up as not having sex.

When we talk about online dating it should be noted that many women don't participate there, and the one's that do and enjoy hookups naturally can get a higher value mate than they would for a LTR. That doesn't mean that a few men monopolize all the women. Many available women simply are not into online dating.