BurningMoose wrote:
Are girls really this nervous about dates? I thought it was only us dudes. I guess I have some image in my head that girls have dates all planned out and go in with uber confidence, leaving us guys to be anxious...this is interesting stuff. I can't give much advice, because I had no idea this occurred with women!!
Yeah alot of this kind of stuff aplies to pretty much everyone Burning. Not just aspies either, this is a pretty universal thing.
K princess, remember that if he is asking you out after that first meeting it means he already likes what hes seen of you.
If you were awkward before at all (probably were, aspies heh
) hes already seen it so no need to freak out about your words or mannerisms.
You'll be fine, just chill out and have fun. All it is is 2 people hanging out and having fun to see if they like each other, if you don't like him or vice versa its no biggie.
You just weren't good together and it was nothing either of you did wrong, there will be other dates and other people who are probably awesome.
Just remember that and you'll be fine I think..... also beer helps lol.