I prefer a hot woman

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I can honestly not see myself with a less attractive woman. And of course id rather that they werent to fat either. Am i shallow? or since ive been considered good looking by alot of people is it ok?

If shes hot she better be smart otherwise id just stick with an intelligent friendly average woman.

You mean you're only attracted to people you find attractive? Wow.

yeah , i usually only get nice looking girls approach me anyway. ive attracted a few models but of course it never went anywhere.. dam aspergers lol

Maybe they're scared of "wife-beater" tank tops.

It is ok.

Depends whether you want to be happy or not. You said earlier you "outsmart" women, and also that your not really comfortable wanting any woman that would want you. Thats all a bit of a mess isn't it? Hence the post I guess. I think you need to think about exploring the value different types of intelligence and different types of "hot". You are going along with there being objective attractive norms set by mainstream society. Its all bollocks (lots of folk will tell me its not now).

Your neurology is unusual, perhaps "hers" is. Perhaps the woman you can have an amazing, hot, sex-fuelled, physical, spiritual, emotional, intellectually-matched romp through life with, is not "mainstream", (perhaps in behaviour, dress or thinking).

You make a very herd connection to me above (and I'm an NT so meant to be the sheep).

You say society says you are good looking, so is it okay if you want a woman that society also thinks is good looking.
Thats whole game is dull mate, its level one.

I've had very "handsome" men, but the men in my life that have totally blown me away and made me feel a million times more alive where kinda of plain and geeky. An appearance that can start off looking kind of plain, can turn into the most stunning creature. Radiating beauty and deep, unusual passion from every part of their bodies, brain, heart, soul, their gait, their movements.

I've steered well away from blokes cos they were too handsome, perhaps thats shallow.
But good luck

Last edited by pastafarian on 22 Sep 2012, 5:39 am, edited 1 time in total.

hmm well as an example my brother introduced me to a girl but i was shy and went in my room, my brother came in and said arent you coming? she wants you to come. i said im not sure. then the next thing i know is she came in and said '' come mat it will be fun'' so basically she went and got me out of my room.

that was my first gf and only gf so far. she said i was her first good looking boyfriend. i could tell she was glad but of course as the weeks unravelled i wasnt the person she thought i was. (it lasted a month). i didnt know back then i had aspergers of course.

so maybe your right i might be better suited to an extrovert woman who is intelligent.

you can only learn anything by trying to connect to different types of people, and keeping an open mind

I am usually attracted to Intelligent women does that make me a bad person? I am sorry but i cannot resist an intelligent mind.

I have a friend who many people find unattractive both in behaviour, dress and thinking.

He is a bit of a pain in the arse. Other folk see an annoying, older, badly-dressed bloke. I see one of the most radiatingly beautiful people in the universe. I'm entirely serious.
Looking at him is soothing to my eyes, because I love him so much.

I know its a cliche, but that kind of happy beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

argh i wish i could look at it that way, but i always inspect a females face and find the good and bad points and basically make a number from 1 out of 10 in my head. its really annoying but i do think i am good at measuring someones looks.(im not saying im perfect either)

so basically what im saying is i couldnt ever see an ugly girl good looking no matter how long im with them. i know this might not be right but its just me.

Personality means more to me than intelligence, honestly. I couldn't be attracted to an intelligent women with a heart of stone.

You're bang on! Perception is everything! I loved my ex-wife dearly... she was only an average person (by the world's standards - as am I...) but I simply didn't want to look at anyone else and the mere sight of her just thrilled me!

*sigh* Pity she didn't feel the same.


Agreed... I think one of the big keys to attraction is not stepping on any of the landmines of "critical faults". A gorgeous, good person could quickly be rejected by one minor detail that's a deal-breaker for the other.

How a bout a kind hearted intelligent woman?

A boy can dream!