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24 Oct 2010, 8:28 pm

this thread is basicly the same as my "got a girlfriend, now what?"

its different in a way because its a guy, not a girl, so i am a bit confused as to what to do with my new boyfriend

it might be the fact that it is not that socially acceptable (us 2 being a gay couple)

any thoughts?


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24 Oct 2010, 8:38 pm

take it day by day and explore each other and be patient--I wish I had that problem with having a boyfriend in the same way yyou have one and I am working on it but I am super shy and can't tell the person I like how I feel.


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24 Oct 2010, 9:09 pm

Radiofixr wrote:
take it day by day and explore each other and be patient--I wish I had that problem with having a boyfriend in the same way yyou have one and I am working on it but I am super shy and can't tell the person I like how I feel.


nawww, if you get the chance, and if you think they like you, tell them how you feel


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25 Oct 2010, 1:28 am

/shrug Just enjoy his company. If you're worried about acceptance, you don't have to do PDA. A couple dudes hanging out isn't gunna draw attention if you're not hanging on each other.



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26 Oct 2010, 1:44 am

ducky9924 wrote:
/shrug Just enjoy his company. If you're worried about acceptance, you don't have to do PDA. A couple dudes hanging out isn't gunna draw attention if you're not hanging on each other.


hehe, we kinda hug and kiss now, and my mum isnt to happy about it


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26 Oct 2010, 2:09 am

tk5800 wrote:
ducky9924 wrote:
/shrug Just enjoy his company. If you're worried about acceptance, you don't have to do PDA. A couple dudes hanging out isn't gunna draw attention if you're not hanging on each other.


hehe, we kinda hug and kiss now, and my mum isnt to happy about it


It seems that's by far the biggest issue, as her disapproval is only going to get worse. This sounds like a bad situation for all of you. Though it seems also that there's no harm in getting more intimate in private, as this will actually create fewer problems than the PDAs.



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26 Oct 2010, 1:07 pm

Now , its body massage time.



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26 Oct 2010, 2:45 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Now , its body massage time.


+1 :lol:


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28 Oct 2010, 10:07 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Now , its body massage time.


tottally :D


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